i heard at strip clubs the stripper rubs her naked self all over the guys body isn't that cheating?
how could guys think that's not cheating?!?! when your with someone you can only have physical contact sexually with that person (for all you guys who don't think it's cheating i'd like to see a male stripper rub his dick & hot body all over your gf) and how could they do it if their about to get married or are in a relationship ?cause that is cheating!
i'm pretty sure all guys do this so i was wrong when i said only MOST guys cheat right guys? now i found out ALL guys cheat!
and for all you girls who think your bf is diffrent that's only acting
2007-02-08 08:09:49 · 18 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm thinking of only going for gay guys would they still like a girl even if they're not attracted to them
2007-02-08 08:31:54 · update #1
It's cheating. Men are pigs. Become a Lesbian.
2007-02-08 08:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
At first I was going to say that no it is not cheating.
But after thinking about it, it draws a very fine line.
On the one hand the girl is usually only in it for the money. She is just an entertainer, so it's really just a show. I mean if we say one form of entertainment is cheating where does it stop, would watching porn be cheating, or going to the movies or a play with an attractive female lead be cheating, few people would say that so why should stripping or lap dancing be cheating.
That was my first thought.
Then I thought about it some more. What about a guy going to a hooker. She is only in it for the money too. Her acts are only slightly more physical than the strippers, and that would without doubt be considered cheating. How now could stripping be considered not cheating?
I don't know. I would say that stripping is clearly not cheating, but lap dances it would depend on how far it goes. But the bottom line is if you are in a relationship and a member of the other sex is touching your body in a way that your gf/bf finds offensive than to let that happen is probably cheating.
2007-02-08 16:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf went to a strip club before we were going out. And from what I heard goes on, yes it is cheating. Its not allowed but the guys actually touch the girls between the legs and lick there boobs and stuff. So yea, its cheating. I would have killed my bf if he went to one while we were going out.
2007-02-08 16:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by tallyluver 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is cheating and im horrible at lieing and me and my gf have been going out for 9 years and i never would think to go to a strip club because its a lustful sin. It wrong and i know it and so do they. why go if it's wrong. For pleasure that day but when you die god won't see it like that. plus some of those guys are straight forward and want it now but not this one. the only thing we've done is made out and we both agreed to do *It* when we're older.
My brother has never cheated and some of my friends. I Said SOME not all so there still are ppl who do have lustful feelings its just sickin me to think they do that and for just one day of pleasure!!! GROSS!!!! btw im 17 and i do like mew mew cause my gf loves them!!! yeah...
2007-02-08 16:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by b r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up.. It's not cheating. it's like saying shaking hands with someone of the opposite sex is cheating. Besides you're too insecure. If a man wants to be with you he will stay. if not he's outta there.
In the end, I know my wife will come home to me.
And your statement "All Men cheat" is a stupid one. Not all men cheat. I don't. And if your man is cheating. You better check yourself..... cause somethings wrong with you.
2007-02-08 16:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by Highbeam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's pretty bad! That sure says a LOT about a person's character, if they prefer to go to a strange club & see strangers stripping--it's just not right!!
2007-02-08 16:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sheryl R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he going to a strip club if he's about to get married? (Bachelor party, i'm guessing...) Yes, it's definitely cheating because that is thinking "lustfully" about that stripper.
By the way, it's NOTHING like shaking hands. It's SEXUAL....he's getting excited about it!
2007-02-08 16:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by emiliakitty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry for that you have such bad luck w/ your men...but i am here to tell you that my guy would never cheat. He hates strip clubs and thinks they are nasty... you simply haven't found the right guy...not ALL guys are bad!
2007-02-08 16:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys like the strip club.
For real. Too many of those girls are plastic and some guys like a girl-next-door kind of girl.
2007-02-08 16:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by tabby90 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes - I think that any sexual contact from kissing upwards constitutes cheating.
2007-02-08 16:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt think of going to a strip clib as cheating....i wouldnt think of a lap dance as cheating either unless it was just out of control
2007-02-08 16:13:52 · answer #11 · answered by Staying Quiet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋