I have been dating this guy for 4 mons and i have not met any of his friends yet. And, he says that he wants to take the realtionship slow which is fine by me but I see a red flag?
2007-02-08 07:59:08 · 13 answers · asked by Marylynn P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't jump to any conclusions. There could be lots of reasons for this. Two of them have already been discussed- he could be hiding something, or he could be afraid that his friends can't be trusted around you. One person says he is embarrassed by you, but what if its the other way around- what if he is afraid that his friends will embarass him?
If it is one of the latter two reasons, once he starts to feel more secure in the relationship, he will let you in. But, just in case it is the former, keep your eyes open for any other signs that he may be hiding something.
2007-02-08 08:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by FWM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you havent met anyone not even a clue as to what type of friends he have he isnt planning on letting you meet them why maybe someone else is in the picture? Think where did you met I hope not in the club
2007-02-08 08:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by msblackthin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be a few things. could be that he doesnt want his friends hitting on you or he doesnt want his friends telling you his business. I have a guy keep me away from his friends and family because I was the *other girl* turns out he had a girlfriend that he had been with for 2 years. So he could be keeping you away so his friends wont tell either you or another girl about multiple relationships.
2007-02-08 08:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're seeing a red flag, go with your gut. if you haven't met any of his friends and it's been 4 months, he's hiding something.
2007-02-08 08:04:16 · answer #4 · answered by flynnebondolini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of them are right, it is either one or the other.
He might fear that his friends might make a move on you or he might have another GF. Make sure it not another girl, otherwise you are sure to be hurt in the long run.
2007-02-08 08:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So do i its either because he is ashamed of you or his friends may say something to you that you didn't no or maybe they no he maybe seeing someone else other then you on the side and he don't want you to know about.
2007-02-08 08:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ouch.....that could mean a lot of things. The first thing that popped into my mind is that you may not be the only girlfriend in his life.
2007-02-08 08:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because boys are knobs basically. i was going out with my now ex-boyfriend for a year and a half and he never let me meet his mates. its just their thing, shouldnt be anything to worry about mate.
2007-02-08 08:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by largeinit343 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you need to meet his friends.
2007-02-08 08:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not that in to you and he does not think you are good enough to show off to his friends
2007-02-08 08:02:51 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋