I constantly feel left out and when I try to include myself or find out what happened I usually get nevermind or nothing as a response.
2007-02-08 07:42:28 · 6 answers · asked by Important 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I don't understand?!
Maybe you're trying with the wrong people. Rude people at that.
Join a club where you're involved with people that appreciate the same hobbies or activities.
Kind people are everywhere. Never, never put yourself at anyone's mercy.
Let me tell you that when your older no one cares if you're cool. Study hard & become something great.
Keep smiling and know that there are people out there that do appreciate you.
2007-02-08 07:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Drop the attitude that it's someone else's responsibility to make sure that you are included. You have a very self-focused attitude.
2. It's not a FEEL kind of thing. It's a DOING kind of thing. Do you offer to help others? There are tons of people who have needs much greater than you will ever meet. If you just help them as best you can, you will be included.
3. You don't "get it" as to why you are excluded. Here's the clue: when you help enough other people get what they want, you will have more than you will ever need or want. It has everything to do with the willingness to serve others and disregard the inconvenience that it causes you.
2007-02-08 15:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Just feel left in. That way you will still be left alone, but just in by yourself. What I'm saying there isn't much you can really do, but just be yourself, if others like you great, if they don't well they are either right not to like you or they are wrong and usually everybody doesn't stay wrong forever. Good luck to you.
2007-02-08 15:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by dumb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
develop your own interests, stop relying on the interest of others to make you feel "included". It is not their job to entertain you or allow you to join in. When you develop your own interests, you meet others with like interests and then you share them and the inclusion comes naturally.
2007-02-08 15:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You haven't said what it is you feel left out of. Are these peers, co-workers, family? And how old are you?
2007-02-08 15:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by TweetyBird 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Develope or get new friendships. Work at making sure that you respect yourself and you will attract those who will respect you more
2007-02-08 15:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by elflocks62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋