my girl friend just told me that she is a bedwetter...?

Question

and i am one to but i havent told here iwet the bed what should i do
i am 14 she is 12 i am in 8th grade she in 7th we have both gone to docotors about the problem so yeah

we both have bladder problems we both can't control are bladdders in the day time too

we both have to wear proctection in the day time and noght which i just found out today but haven't told i werar protection to

Answer 1

she was being honest with you so you should tell her. it will probly make you both fell better about the situation... she might feel less embarrased and you'll have it off your chest.

Answer 2

When I was dating we had common interests like music, sports, and dancing-LOL If this is an unconscious act, Bladder problems at your age could be a sign of something more serious be it physical or psychological. Both of you should go back to the Doctors and get some professional help. Meanwhile, don't butter your own popcorn if you take her to the movies :)

Answer 3

You guys have a lot in common, why in the world and how in the world did you two get on this subject anyway? You're both bedwetters trust me she'll grow out of it and so will you hopefully. Good luck hon!

Answer 4

Both of you need to ask your parents for help. One of my 4 children had this problem. It was easily resolved with the assistance of our pediatrician. You both may have gone to the doctor. But apparantly the doctors did not help either of you. Sometimes parents need to take the initiative to ensure their children get the best possible medical care.

Answer 5

first of all babe your to young to date well not exactly but its kinda weird or should i say embarassing that your girlfriend told you that she wets the bed why did she i mean its kinda like a secret she can only tell the love of her life you guys are still young but going into subject you will grow out of it dont worry plus dont tell no one people judge alot and we dont want that do we?

Answer 6

OMG!! if she told you then she wants to be open to you!! just tell her. i mean since she told you that she has the same problem then she wont like, explode and say omg you wet the bed!! u no what i mean? just b open to her and that will help ur relationship last longer!! ♥♥

Answer 7

The best solution is to gain control over it. As someone already said, stop when you're getting there and relax. Pay more attention to pleasuring your mate--orally, perhaps--and avoid rubbing your penis up against anything while doing so. It will take work on your part and patience on both parts. Learn here http://EndPrematureEjaculation.enle.info/?toNc

As a last resort, some antidepressants curb sexual functioning with the intention of learning the pleasure of restraint after which you could taper off them. Here's your goal: the longer you can delay your orgasm, the more intense it will be. So it isn't just a matter of satisfying your mate. This is the main reason some claim stoned sex is better, unlike drunk sex which can leave you unable to perform (brewer's droop). You enjoy exploring each other longer. And remember, oral isn't just one place. It's all over, paying particular attention to kissing, and TALK about what each of you like. Strange how people don't talk about sex when they're the ones doing it.

Answer 8

it is ok. lots of people get this it is a kind of problem people get.the best thing you can do for her is to be there for her.and plz dont tell other people it might make her fell uncomtable.

Answer 9

I would be honest with her just like she was with you. She opened up and told you so I would just tell her that you are too.

Answer 10

Between the rubber sheets for you guys!