i don't know what to do..????

Question

i don't know what to do.. i had a pregnancy scare 7/8 months back and the test came back negative but i had all the symptoms & even found myself with my hands on my stomach subconciously.. i still feel as though im pregnant but if i am then this is the 9th month! i am onli 16 and scared but also upset that after all these symptoms and feelings, i might not be pregnant after all.. my friend said that this could be a phantom pregnancy... please please give me your advice.. thanks x

Answer 1

Is your stomach a lot bigger? Are your breasts leaking fluid? Do you feel something kicking? Come on, you are not pregnant.

Answer 2

If you were 9 months pregnant you would have lots of symptoms. You would not have any menstrual cylces (periods). You would feel your baby moving on a regular basis. You would have gained weight, around 25 lbs. You would have noticed lots of body changes as well. I think if you truly feel you could be pregnant, you need to go to a doctor. I know you are young, but find a planned parenthood, or other free clinic that will give you an exam. Also, if you take a pregnancy test now, it would be 100% positive, because you would have so much pregnancy hormone in your body. I really hope you go see a Doctor, even if you are not pregnant, you need to talk with them about sex. And precautions you should be taking.

Answer 3

I think I am rather safe when I say that you are not pregnant...as you said you would be 9 months along now and although there are a few very rare occasions when woman don't know until they deliver...I am sure you would know. Enjoy being 16 trust me when I say babies are hard work and you will no longer have a life once you have a baby and you will miss being able to be a 16 year old.

Answer 4

Speak to your GP. You are either pregnant, or not. Either way, a Dr will be able to help you. Tests can be wrong, but if it a phantom pregnancy, you still need to talk to someone about what you are feeling. Good luck whatever happens.

Answer 5

You poor thing. Your obviosly having a hard time. Go to your gp and tell him that you are really worried about it and could he arrange an ultrasound just to put your mind at rest. Then you can get on with life and remember practice SAFE sex!!!!

Also i think that if you have done 2 or more tests then you are probably not pregnant.

Answer 6

i think it has been on your mind a lot and it is a phantom pregnancy- you probably felt that you wished you were and you weren't pregnant and it is just your emotions- i am sure that you would know if you were 9 months pregnant. why not just go to the dr and have a chat with them?

Answer 7

Take a pregnancy test

Answer 8

you should probably see a doc asap!! i think if you were 9 months pregnant you would definity know it. have you gained weight? missed periods? felt the "baby" moving? your still really young. if its nothing, then you sould slow down and enjoy life. your only 16 and in my opinion shouldnt be having sex. make sure you get on some sort of birth control!

Answer 9

did you do the test yourself , if so then maybe you should talk to your doctor, as you may have got a false reading if you did not do it correctly. also for your own piece of mind you should be checked to eliminate any other possibilities. you may be worrying unduly. see a doctor, take care of yourself, get some support from someone you can trust and try to relax. you will only make yourself ill if you worry and do nothing about it. i wish you well.

Answer 10

Is this a serious question?? You shouldn't reproduce because you obviously have no common sense!!! Like you would really be 9 months pregnant and not know....it does amuse me to hear stories about pple who claim they had no clue they were pregnant until they went into labor, what a CROCK!

Answer 11

Sounds like you're obsessing so much about this that you're creating psychosomatic symptoms. If you use adequate birth control (or abstain from sex completely) then there won't be anything to worry about.