I have been adicted to cocane for about 3 months and I can't STOP. My sisters r all dope dealers and don't give, wether I do drugs or not. I've stold about $300 from my mom and wasted it on Coke. I don't now what to do becasue I'm lost and I want something different.
I'm scared to experience any other drugs because coke isn't as exciting. Any advice is appreciated.
2007-02-08 07:33:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sit down and talk to your parents. Let you mom know that you stole money from her, but that when you are clean you WILL pay her back. Check yourself into rehab and kick the habit. When you complete rehab stay away from your sisters until they quit selling this drug, that way you don't relapse. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck.
2007-02-08 07:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am saying this from personal experience with the stuff.....get help now and get away from it before it takes over your life worse than it already has. Go to an Narcotics Anonymous meeting at a local church (that's usually where they meet), and just listen....you don't have to talk or say anything if you don't want to. There you will find people who understand and have been there and they are more than willing to help. It will be a good place for you to find some new friends who are also trying to straighten out their lives. I have seen cocaine ruin several peoples lives and families and it is not worth it. The time you are losing being all jacked up is time you can never get back. Please, get help now!
2007-02-08 15:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that while rehab may be the first choice, it isn't always possible.
You should be able to find some sort of free counseling if you look for it... and NA's doors are always open.
You've admitted you have a problem-- that's the hardest part. And NOW is the time to step forward and make the change! Best of luck to you.
2007-02-10 16:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The help starts with you first of all. No one can get you the help that you need but you. If you are serious about gettin help, check yourself in the rehab. I'm not trying to be cruel or anything but seriously. My uncle is on it too and the only way he is going to get help is if he make it up in his mind to get the necessary help that he needs. Only you can do that! Good luck on your decision. Several people say over and over again that they want the help but actions speak louder than just words!!!!
2007-02-08 15:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by jetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about other drugs cuz they are all bad! It's hard! You are an addict (so am I...recovering...) so if it's not cocaine then you could be addicted to the next!
I went to treatment to stop smoking marijuana and it's not easy quitting any drug! You learn a lot about addiction and yourself. It's deeper than just being a coke addict!
I am not sure how old you are but age doesn't matter. I was just thinking of how to pay for it but I would recommend treatment. I got my treatment paid for by the state....there are many options out there for you. If you need help w/that feel free to email me.
I would even talk to your mom. You don't have to tell her right away about stealing money from her...that could come in time...through treatment. If you aren't comfortable w/telling her find someone you can talk to but get moving quick! Things happen and you are risking a lot by continuing this lifestyle!
As for your sisters....it's a sad thing. They are probably addicted too. If not they are certainly sick for doing you like that! But I can also relate cuz before I went to treatment I was hooking my cousin up w/cocaine too. It started out w/a one time thing. I knew I was hooking him up better than anyone else would but I also made a little cash in doing it. One time lead to about 6 months of it. I also got caught up in doing it since I always had my hands on it. After I started treatment I remember talking to him and crying cuz I knew I was helpin him harm himself. So I can relate to them hooking you up....but I never pushed it on him. He just always came to me and I got caught up in the drugs and money!
GET HELP FAST.
It's not going to be easy...and if at first you don't succeed....try try again!! Don't ever give up cuz honestly you could struggle w/this fight all of your life! It's all about you choice to live or die. Basically...well that is my opinion. I am still struggling but I have to think about my health. I realize some might laugh and say oh smoking MJ isn't that bad but I am steadily smoking & burning out my lunggs...plus poisoning my body w/all the bad stuff in it. So I just want to be healthy and being healthy means not smoking anything! The same goes for every drug. It sux cuz it feels good but we all know that many things that feel good are not good for us!
Best wishes & I will keep you in my prayers!
2007-02-08 15:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by tr95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you really are sincere about getting help &i hope you are because that is the 1st step to recovery !! Contact a re-hab center in your area and they will help you !! I wish you all the luck in the world with this problem because you can only go up from here and get your life back together !! Don't follow in your sister's footsteps be your own person !! GOD BLESS &GOOD LUCK!! PLEASE DO THIS NOW BEFORE YOU CHANGE YOUR MIND!!!
2007-02-08 15:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by linda bug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to change then you need to get yourself help and consider getting your sisters help too. Obviously your addicted and should get help as soon as you can. Dont try anything new...this could really mess up your life and relationship with your family. Dont you want to have a family someday? Do you want to be a coke addicted mom?
GET HELP
2007-02-08 15:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by chelzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turn your sisters into the police and tell your mother.
You need to stop, NOW - or your end up in jail or dead!
Make up your mind. 3 months isn't such a long time to turn your life around NOW. DRUGS are for LOSERS, are you a loser? I don't think so! SO STOP ABUSING YOUR BODY. Your body is the temple God gave you!
Good Luck!
2007-02-08 22:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check into rehab, baby, and FAST! You need to get away from your sisters, too. Do you have friend and/or famliy in another town that you can turn to? If so, do it. You need to stop the drugs now!!!
2007-02-08 15:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun. I don't mean to be rude but you need to get some help. I understand that things happen but before something horrible happens to you. I just hope that you understand that there will be people who eill miss you
2007-02-08 15:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by cholia 4 life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋