one day my ex-boyfriend came 2 my house and my boyfriend pulled up and slaped da **** out of me
2007-02-08 07:28:40 · 38 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
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2007-02-08 07:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My first question to ask you would be why your ex came to your house. It sounds like your boyfriend is very insecure and indeed jealous if you still have a friendship with your ex. I can remember when I was working in the pub, where I met my partner, wrong place really to meet someone who is not a drinker. Things were'nt too bad at first, and althouth I have never been the over flirty type, fellas would sometimes laugh and joke with me, I use to just try and passify them and get through my shift. My partner use to stand at the end of the bar, and he would threaten anyone who use to have a laugh and a joke with me. On the way home, I would get abuse in the car. While I was driving, I would have his fist pressed into my face, calling me all dirty names, all because of his insecurities. He would demand I give up my job because he couldn't stand fellas having a laugh with me. In the end to try and make things better, I gave up working in the pub. It never stopped him from calling in the pub after work. He put me through total s*** for years. He would come home drunk at least 3 times a week, he would come in and start over anything. I put up with the abuse for many years until I phoned the police one night because he wrecked my house, smashing things, throwing me around the place, slapping me everywhere. The police came, about 5 of them and had to wrestle him to the ground as he is a big fella. He was bound over for 6 months and fined £100. My advice to you my love would be to kick this fella into touch if he keeps on doing this sort of thing to you.Has this guy been hurt before, therefore taking his insecurities out on you! I still have afew problems now and then with my partner, through alcohol mainly. I will take so much and the last time he overstepped the mark, I threw him out. I never answered his calls or spoke to him for four days. Don't let this fella think you are weak and he can slap you whenever he feels like it. You are worth more than that. Dont hesitate to call the police if he does it to you again. Once you start letting him get away with it, he will think he can hit you every time he feels threatened or p****d off.
Stand your ground or he will walk all over you. Good luck my love.
2007-02-08 08:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by nickynich 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never been hit by any one. If my boyfriend ever hit me he'd be going to jail and I wouldn't change my mind and go bail him out. No one has a right to put their hands on you ever.
No one deserves to ever be hit/slapped/punched or even be verbally abused. Get away from him and fast before you end up dead.
You need to get a restraining order to help keep him away. Mind you it is only a piece of paper but it is a good start in taking back your self respect.
Consider moving as well, get a new phone number and be careful as to who you give it to. Make sure that both your address and phone number are NOT published in the phone book, get it all unlisted.
A former neighbor of mind had an abusive husband he stabbed her over 20 times and she died 3 hours later. You don't need to end up like that. Get away from him now, there are shelters for abused women. Call your local police and ask them to help you, they will.
2007-02-08 07:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off I am a guy, and I was brought up the respectful way... You know the ole "no spittin in front of the ladies, and dont disrespect them niether..."
Any guy that has the balls to hit a lady needs to have them cut off...
And dont cower down to that bs... if he hits you again, wait until he least expects it and then take pics of the bruises or whatever, show somebody, anyone that you can trust... and then be done with him, and find someone that actually respects you...
I can see him getting pissy about your ex coming over, but that is still no reason to hit you...
gl...
2007-02-08 07:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you need to NOT put up with that. Any guy who hits girls should be beet them selfs. The day a guy hit me, would be the day! You need to dump his sorry ***. it will only get worse. Just yesterday i saw some guy and girl fighint in there car at my work it was so bad they were both pounding each other I had to call the cops. It just was not even right. Please find your self someone else your boy friend is a piece of crap!!!
2007-02-08 07:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ooooo!!! You need to be finished with him girl!! There was nothing you can do that makes you deserve that! He's gonna kiss your butt and do everything he can to keep you. He'll promise to never do it again. He's hit you once, he'll do it again.
Do you have a father, older brothers, male friends, uncle or anybody that can set him straight on the fact that he's never going to see or touch you ever again??
DO NOT LET HIM DO THIS TO YOU!!! You are an IMPORTANT PERSON!!! Don't accept that treatment!!!!!
I grew up the sheriffs daughter so nobody was stupid enough to treat me like that. I would have gotten my Dad on it right away!!
2007-02-08 07:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my mother was first married, she said my dad shook her.
At 5"1" my mom put her finger in his face and told him that if he ever touch her again, he'd be sorry, because he had to sleep sometime. He never acted threatening towards her again.
A kid I grew up with had an alcoholic father that hit his mom. When he passed out, she beat the hell out of him with a frying pan.
Don't bother with anyone that mistreats you.
2007-02-08 07:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by tombollocks 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him into an exboyfriend and tell him to leave you alone. Also tell him that if he comes near you again you'll call the police. Don't try to look past it and stay in a relationship cause beatings always have to start somewhere.
2007-02-08 07:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
pick up the pone and dial 911 have his good 4 nothin butt arrested and teach him he cant hit you.Let him be someones punching bag in jail for a while and pay court cost and fines hell probly just cuss you out next time besides that dont you value your self?Like hell if id ever let some punk guy get away with hitting me?!
2007-02-11 15:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by christine h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave. Do not stay with a man who will hit you. No excuses. No person deserves that. Respect yourself and leave him!
No amount of loneliness is worth being treated with that type of disrespect. If he hits you, he probably abuses you verbally and mentally. Think about it.
2007-02-08 07:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by toomeymimi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
definite, they are valid threats - he won't have hit you yet, yet each and every be conscious he says is calculated to knock you down. finally, you will the two be on the comparable place, on the comparable time whilst his anger boils over and asserting grotesque issues to you heavily isn't adequate to fulfill him. Run - do no longer walk - removed from this guy. believe me, there are adult adult males obtainable who do no longer could make you experience undesirable to experience good approximately themselves.
2016-11-02 22:04:27 · answer #11 · answered by hinch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋