Why do wives become evil when they know a divorce is imminent?

Question

Am I to blame that she stayed in a marriage knowing that I was not in love with her?

Answer 1

She's hurt, so she is lashing out the only way she can. It is kinda your fault, if you weren't in love you should have left, otherwise you leave her hoping things will get better.

Answer 2

yes, as much as she is.
anger is a hard thing to get by. give it time.
try to be fair, when u divvy up the assets. this is another reasonpeople get so hurt. we love our lives, and feel like a failure when things don't work out.
if you didn;t love her then why marriage? you saw it coming, admit it.