I need a girl who really likes me not one who will dump me after a few days i mean i am not afraid to ask a girl out just nobody likes me.
2007-02-08 07:15:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your 11?? Sweetie.. Focus on school, you'll have plenty of chance to get girls...11 yrs old? You don't NEED a girl yet..When I was growing up, boys ur age were scared of girls.
2007-02-08 07:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Fashionista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An 11 year old does not need a girlfriend. An 11 year old should be hanging out with friends (girls and boys) and enjoying being young! You have the rest of your life to find a girlfriend and have a relationship.
You cannot have a real relationship at 11 anyways, you are still dependant on your parents to drive you around, to buy you food and clothes. That is not condusive to having a relationship.
You need to focus on doing well in school, and having a good time! Don't be tied down to a girl. You are young.
However, if you want to make friends who happen to be girls, you could try being nice to them. Compliment them. Don't be creepy and want to be with them all the time. Let them do their thing. Maybe offer to help them with homework if you are good at a subject and they are having a hard time.
2007-02-08 07:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by jeepgirl0385 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 11??? Why would you want one now anyways?? You have your whole life ahead of you!!! (plus, it's not like you can really go on a date or anything...) But if everyone in your class is "dating" someone, I suppose that it is frustrating... At your age, it seems everyone "dumps" everyone for the silliest reasons, so if you are worried about not having a serious relationship, I hate to tell you, but at your age, it is pretty likely that it won't last long... My daughter is 13 and her friends "go out" and "break up" with each other every other day...nothing is taken seriously at this age...
Enjoy being a kid right now...I know, it sucks, and you want to do everything that everyone else is doing..but you will have tons of time for that..have fun w/ your friends right now, and the right girl will eventually come along that will like you for you...
(You say that nobody likes you...are you sure?? Kids your age are usually pretty shy, and aren't going to let the world know how they feel about you...When you least expect it is when the right one will come along)
2007-02-08 07:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Nathan that is your name correct? Well you said your 11? Right now you should be more focused on your studies and making sure you get through grade school with the information and experiences you'll need for Middle school , then by the time your in middle school the girls will probably be all over you sweetheart, I'm sure your a total cutie and lots of girls will love to have you as a boyfriend, But there is a time for relationships, and a time to better yourself. Right now Relationships should not be your main concern I know You've probably heard "your too young for relationships" over and over, and that is actually true. Your young you have lots of time to get a girlfriend and experience love and such. But now You should Focus on your studies and take care of yourself.
2007-02-08 12:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela Michele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is wait till you're old enough. Not the answer you want but its the truth. What do you need the headache of a girlfriend for at 11 years old? What you need to figure out is how to get a Nintendo Wii
2007-02-08 07:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by WiseManSay 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have the same question as you do asker.I am 11 too.I want a girlfriend so we can make out and I can talk about my feelings to her cuz I can trust her.I want an older girlfriend like a teenager or something as my girlfriend.SOMEONE HELP ME!I WOULD CRY TO GET A GIRL!
2007-02-09 13:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, you're eleven. You don't need a girlfriend. You need a mom, can you talk to your mom about girls and stuff? Maybe you should try it - if not - try talking to a teacher at school you feel you can trust or a coach or any adult that you feel you can trust basically. Just someone to talk to about your feelings. You never want to just go out looking for a girlfriend/boyfriend. If you keep your focus on you - the girls will come around in due time:)
2007-02-08 07:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 11, I have a GF, Though circumstances are different. I don't go out with a girl only because she loves me, I go out with her because I love her, she loves me. If you want a GF Be totally real with the girl you like. I don't want to act all smart, because I'm 11 too, though you don't sound ready at all, you sound like you want to look cool by having a GF.
Nick
2007-02-08 07:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find an 11 year old girl who feels the same way. Good luck!
2007-02-08 07:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by Lily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi! lil 11.
wouldn't you prefer mom buying you pizza or burger rather than you buying one for someone at such sweet age. why a girlfriend when you can spend more quality time brushing up your knowledge???? i had sooo many things in my list of adventure with friends and family that the other species were more or less a pest on my way for a long long time. i still don't regret my choice.
there is time for everything. why rush????
2007-02-08 10:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by cheer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋