I met his boy online awhile ago through a dating site and really I'm not looking for Mr Right or even Mr Right Now, just someone to have fun with. Anyways, we talked online for awhile the first night and I asked him what he was doing on the site. He said he's looking for booty calls and said at least he was honest with what he wants. He'll still go out of his way to talk to me but do you think by me telling him nothing is going to happen with me, his mind will change and he'll be able to just hang out with getting any? Or do you think he'll try and be slick and work his way into getting some (regardless of whether I actually let him or not)...Just curious
2007-02-08 07:04:10 · 11 answers · asked by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Basically I'm talking to a guy who only wants sex and nothing more....However he continually looks for me, goes out of his way to talk to me. Am I naive in thinking he'll change his mind or will he just continue to try and get under my skin and hopefully get some is what I'm asking.
2007-02-08 07:10:44 · update #1
I'm not interested in him in that sense, just someone to have fun and hang out with. I don't want to have sex with someone unless they're close enough to be my husband. He's not going to get any regardless of whether he tries or not. I just don't want to bother wasting my time if all he wants is just sex and not the hanging out going out etc...
2007-02-08 07:12:59 · update #2
*LoL* I'm not desperate but I don't want to just up and leave him if he wants sex but understands I don't and is willing to work with that. But at the same time I don't want to try and work something out with him if he all he's going to do is try and get some. It's sorta hard to explain. It's like if this happens, I'll do this and if this happens then I'll do this but I don't want to be naive and I don't want to be a witch either.
2007-02-08 07:15:32 · update #3
He'll try to wine and dine you and he'll go out with you, even if you tell him he'll not get anything, because he hopes to get laid.
2007-02-08 07:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you just wanted to meet some one to be friends with and not to date or any thing like that. say don't try to get a booty call on me just be my friend and if he stil ax that way then don't talk to him
2007-02-08 15:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why would you want to date someone who has that sort of mentality anyway? He's not the one. He's probably a forty year old pervert,
honesty isn't always "honesty". So if that's the kind of person you want to be with than go for it.
2007-02-08 15:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away!
Don't chat anymore. You have to be up front with eachother in a relationship! Find a relationship with someone who shares your goals and views. Don't settle for something you don't want. Never be desperate!
2007-02-08 15:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to give the guy props for telling you the truth right off but if sex is not something you want i think you should stay away from this guy for the time being.
2007-02-08 15:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by ndbt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That will be a touchy one. I am sure he will try sooner or later to get your booty lol
2007-02-08 15:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just resist him or reject him.he's just there for a booty call right?he'll convince you one day,so yup he'll try to make his way.Be carefull
2007-02-08 15:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to be friends. He thinks he can convince you to be his booty call.
2007-02-08 15:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by Classy Geisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys these days just dont care. if hes a nice dude hell understand...but if hes like he sounds hell try to get some
2007-02-08 15:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by mesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
the real answer is are u intresten in him are u ready to have a sexual relatonship
it all up to u hun
but be carefull becuse its not really safe meeting guys in onlineso be careful
tc
~Fayza~
XOXOXOXOXOXO
2007-02-08 15:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by pakiegirl916 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋