Also we know about DNA and we can't have children so don't waste your breath. I would like real answers if their is one.
2007-02-08 06:39:42 · 23 answers · asked by hoodwink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If we're not to bother, than what are you looking for? Validation? Good luck on that.
2007-02-08 06:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by Paige 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of relative? If it is a cousin, chances are you are ok to have kids and get married, in England you can anyway. I had the biggest crush on my cousin growing up, but grew out of it. Be careful on ho you go about this. Is it real love that will last forever? How will it affect your family? I say as long as it isn't a close relative like a brother or sister, go for it. True love is so hard to find, and you cannot control these feelings. Good luck
2007-02-08 06:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is kinda crossing some boundaries... If i were you i would move away from this person. I think that in the end you will be sorry if you start a relationship. I am going to assume that this person is a cousin and hopefully NOT a brother or sister. This could tear a family apart.. There are over millions of people out in the world... go find a mate that is not your relative.. morally it is just wrong.
2007-02-08 06:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am answering this from experience within the family. I have two nieces whose mother passed away from AIDS she had sex with her brother a child was formed as a result of this and the daughter feels that it is fine to have sex with her brother because her mom did it so it makes it alright. I feel sorry for my nieces because they don't know how to act with their brother and sister today. They have been in and out of foster care and are really screwed up emotioanally today. They are 21 and 25 now and don't even deal with the maternal side of the family because their grandmother saw nothing wrong with it. Morally I don't agree to such a relationship but this is a personal bias based on how my nieces are left today. To the writer of this question just pray for spiritual awakening and you will have the answer you are seeking. Good luck.
2007-02-08 07:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by J. M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not the one for you and it isn't love, God doesn't do love like that. So you're wasting your time and it won't ever work out. So you can try what you want but that would be sick and disgusting, what do your parents think? It's obvious that you think it's wrong, but you just don't care. So you're going to do what you want regardless. So there's nothing anyone could say to change your mind.
2007-02-08 06:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only rule you have to worry about is the rule of law. If the law where you are allows people with your relationship to each other to marry, you're good to go. If not, you can't marry. If it isn't marriage you're talking about, and you don't care about rules, then what can we tell you?
2007-02-08 06:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know the "rules" and the possible problems of having children and neither of you care, what is your question?
2007-02-08 07:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by mvngs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How close a relative? Brother? Father?? A distant cousin? Elvis married his cousin & so did Jerry Lee Lewis.
2007-02-08 06:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by smilindave1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know the facts and you do not care so what do you not know what to do? If you stay with them im sure your gonna get it from your family and people you know if your willing to deal with that then what is the question? Just stay with them form a life together hey u can even run away together its your life although You love him/her which is normal considering your related but your in love with them which is not and i am not even tryin to be mean but in todays society it is unaccepted but in ur case you dont care so just do what your heart feels is really right for you
2007-02-08 06:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's really up to you. If u don't care then go for it!
if ur unsore secretly though then you should think about it alot and talk through with the relative at hand.
thats really all i gots :|
good luck :)
2007-02-08 06:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by Jorja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋