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Question

my friend who i like asked me about 3 times before if i like her on Monday night she asked me on msn that if like her more then friends
here the Conversation from Monday Night
(7:52 PM) *Stacey* well I have a question for you
(7:52 PM) J-Roc: shut
(7:52 PM)*Stacey*: Do you like me? and I don't mean as a friend?
(7:53 PM) *Stacey*: I want the honest truth
(7:53 PM) J-Roc: yea i like you
(7:53 PM) *Stacey* more then a friend?
(7:54 PM) J-Roc: you want the truth yes i like you more then a freind
(7:54 PM) J-Roc: you
(7:54 PM) *Stacey* ok
(7:54 PM) J-Roc: im sry that i like you
(7:54 PM) *Stacey* it's ok it's something that you can't help
(7:55 PM) *Stacey*: but you know that I don't like you in that kind of way right?
(7:55 PM) J-Roc: yup
(7:56 PM)*Stacey*: k I was just wondering because I don't want you to get the wrong impression of me...because we are friends and just because you like me doesn't mean that we can't be friends
(7:57 PM) J-Roc: ok

bc she has a bf

Answer 1

Sounds to me like she is insecure in her current relationship and wants to hear that you still like her. Problem is that she is leading you on and not being fair to you. If she truly feels she is a friend she would not keep asking. This puts you in an awkward position and just gives her more control over your relationship. So what if you like her. Obviously she knows this already so what is she accomplishing by continually bringing it up? Nothing. If I were you the next time she asked I would just say 'you already know the answer to that question why do you feel the need to keep asking?' Or something of the sort. It will make it very difficult for you to have a relationship with a girl if you constantly have her over your shoulder saying don't forget you like me but I only want to be friends. It gives me the impression that she wants to be "the one that got away" for you and that is wrong. I would remain her friend (if she stops bringing this up) and find another romantic interest that might actually have the potential of turning into something.

Now, as a side note; this sounds like a typical scenario that most high schoolers will find themselves in at one point or another. If this is the case with you then understand that if it something that is meant to happen it will but do not put your life on hold for her just because she keeps reminding you that you like her. Your high school career will be filled with various love interests and some heartache and by the time you find someone to settle down with this will all be a distant memory.

I hope this helps with your dilema. Good Luck!

Answer 2

this person so likes you. why don't you give him a chance.....