Ok I"ll try to make this short and give as many details as I can. My bf and I seem to be going through something right now. I feel like we are not as close as we use to be. We do work together and we have the same group of friends so we do see each other a lot. But we were really close and she helped me through some really tough times. She seems to treat me differnantly now and I am really hurt by it (and everything that is going on), I am not sure if I did something or if she does not like me anymore or what.. I really want to ask her about it, how do I talk to her about it? How do I bring it up in a nice way?
2007-02-08 06:19:11 · 8 answers · asked by Ella 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
sorry for all/any confusion this is between my best friend and I not bf!!!
2007-02-08 07:51:40 · update #1
You simply let her know that you two aren't as close as you used to be and you would like to work on that. Take it from there and you should be fine. Thank you and good luck.
2007-02-08 06:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see her ask her if she has a minute to talk. Then take her aside and just ask her if everything is ok between you two. She will most likely ask why you are asking, and then you can simply tell her that things feel different lately. The conversation will then be nicely started and you can figure out what's been going on.
2007-02-08 18:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been hearing the term....Are we okay? A lot lately. Theirs only so many ways you can go about asking. Personally I would just ask. Is their something that ive done? Cause we dont seem to be connecting like we use to.
2007-02-08 14:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask ' do ya still love me' If the answer is a nonshallant 'yea' ask 'are you mad at me' and go from there. Try to be patient and not get mad. But also try to keep control of the discussion.
2007-02-08 14:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Handy man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the lunch idea. Just ask her to do something fun and bring up in conversation that you wonder if you did something to offend her.
2007-02-08 17:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by Shanna J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to lunch, and just come out with it.
As long as the words come from your heart. You will have no trouble finding them.
Maybe she has some fears herself, but doesn't know how to approach YOU about them.
2007-02-08 14:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by danksprite420 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your bf is a she? Did you mean your GF?
Anyways, take her/him out on a date/casual dinner and talk about it.
2007-02-08 14:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by rr r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a drama queen? you sound like it.
your friend is probably 'over' your drama crap. either deal with your bf or get over him.
deal with yourself, dear.
the way your question is written, it sounds like your bf is a girl. just so you know.
2007-02-08 15:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋