There is a girl and i dont know if she is a lesbian or not? HELP!!?

Question

well... shes a m8 2... but sumtimes da fings dat she sayz mkez me fink twice bwt er.... lolz.... nd shes always in my face 24/7 neva leaves me alone!!

yes this is the new of writing to save time..i can spell!! I am not a lesbian i just feel uncomfortable when she thrusts her face in mine so that i can smell her breath, plus she started crying when i wouldn't hug her and she tries to hint out that we are going out to my friends which makes it very weird for me because most people my age (14) are homophobic!! I would like to stress that i am not a LESBIAN i just wanted some advice...i do not want her to fancy me!!!

Answer 1

Does this question have english subtitles somewhere?

Answer 2

You're only 14 so I wouldn't worry about it. I've got a really creepy 'friend' who always stands too close for comfort, is really nosy, follows me and gets upset at the most stupid things plus has no interest in boys or anything feminine (we're nearly 16) but I wouldn't go so far as to call her a lesbian. She's the most impossible "friend" I have. When it gets too much I just block her out: don't talk or if i do I'm really vague so she goes away. You might think I'm mean but i have to in the interest of my own mental health.

ps. DON'T ask her if she's lesbian. She's probably just not interested in boyz yet like my friend.

Answer 3

Hi Amz
I guess you are both young & still finding out about yourselves,
your friend may not be sure of her feelings & she may be trying to come to terms with her attraction to you in her own way & it may pass, I am sure she may not want to discuss this with you for fear of rejection from you & losing you as a good friend.
If you get an opportunity you could always talk to her in confidence about how she feels about you, be prepared for what her answer might be & dont freak out If she opens up her feelings & says that sometimes she is attracted to you, it dosnt mean she is lesbian & it dosnt mean you gotta respond to her,it means that she is exploring her own sexuality, she seems to look up to you & if you are a good freind then it is ok for her to like you a lot, no?
obviously she will not talk to you if she thinks that you cant keep a secret.
good friends can!....can you?

Answer 4

listen- youre a baby still-- quite young. How will you know if shes a lesbian for afact if you dont ask----- she may just be a very insecure child and nees lovin from her friends n she trusts you or perhaps she loves you as a friend n nothin more--- if you have questions n wanna talk-- add me on msn [e-mail] gud luck x.

Answer 5

If she has short spiky hair and wares baggy combat trousers , and a stud in the nose then I'm sorry yes maby she is!!!

Answer 6

Next time you have her around at yours, accidentally let a massive dildo fall from your bag in front of her. My bet is, she will have you spreadeagled on the rug and
---up ya boya.

Answer 7

If she says something that makes you feel uncomfortable say "I would rather you do not say that as if makes me feel uncomfortable." Then if she continues you have the choice to keep out of her way.

Or, you could say "why did you say........." and take it from there.

Answer 8

If you like her tell her how you feel but be careful as it may ruin your friendship

Answer 9

I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM IT IS AWFUL... I KNOW .. I JUST ALLWAYS SAY I AM AGAINST LEZZIS AND BI'ZS .. U GOT IT HALF AS BAD AS MEE SHE TELLS MEE SHE LOVES MEE..... JUST BEE CAREFUL .... I AM JUST TELLIN U WOT I DO .. THIS IS PROBALLY NOT GOOD ADVICE ... SOZ LOL ... BUT THIS IS WAT IA M DOIN LOL
SOZ XXXX > DOES THAT REMAIND U A BIT TOO MUCH OF LEZZIS SOZ LOL...... OK OK OK THIS IS BETTA ... SE YA MATE LOL

Answer 10

What the heck is wrong with you? I can't understand you. Why would you care if she was a lesbian? Are you a lesbian? If not it shouldn't matter. Lesbian or not, please learn to spell.