i was at school then when luch started right so then i go to the small freezer to heat up my burrito, so then some teacher tells me to get my fat but out of there! then i tell her that i am just heating my burrito until she tell me this: well sorry i do not care!, just get the hell out or i will have escort you out. So then i threw my burrito at the wall, instead of hitting her (to get my anger out of myself), and started to pound on the doors. So then that teacher sounds like she wants to start a problem with me. How can i deal with her nonsense if it happens next-time? However this is the first time since some teacher has gave me a problem perhaps, i am not going to let someone to try to start a fight with me next time. Also is that considered as verbal abuse? U know what i mean, such as like someone-else trying to raise there own voice at someone-else.
2007-02-08 05:45:01 · 14 answers · asked by Sewer Tank 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
You and your teacher both overreacted.
2007-02-08 05:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
A teacher should not give verbal abuse to a student but you as a student should mind your teacher. If you were not supposed to be in that room using that microwave you should have just left. Students can get into serious trouble with the law if they start a problem on school grounds.
You should never have thrown your burrito at the wall or used any bad language if you did. It would have been much better and more adult like to walk out and later report her verbal abuse to the principal.
The problem with using this as verbal abuse is that if you two were in that room alone it becomes heresay or your word against hers. And you will probably lose. If another student or teacher heard her call you names, now you have proof.
If I was you I would drop it. Anyone can say something if they are having a bad day and get angry. You can say something bad too and you would want her to cut you slack.
Let it drop but if she seems to zero in on you and pick on you then you need to report her. Just make sure you are following the school and teachers rules.
2007-02-08 05:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Not really. You can't prove to anyone the tone of voice that teacher used at you. But that teacher can prove that: 1) you used your burrito to grafitti the wall; 2) attempted to gauge the density of the door by repeated blows; 3) never really were attempting to heat up your burrito by using the freezer. Your angry outburst could've been construed as assaultive behavior to an educator.
2007-02-08 06:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by Coyote 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. She is the teacher and that means you need to respect her requests. If she was genuinely berating you ( swearing at you, calling you ethnic or racial slurs, etc.) that would be considered verbal abuse, in which case you can get together with your parents and inform the principal of her behavior. THAT is how you resolve a situtation like that. However, it does not appear that the teacher did any of those things and thus your acting out in the way you did was completely INAPPROPRIATE and IMMATURE. She didn't deserve to have to put up with that outburst. Please consider this before acting out in the future.
2007-02-08 05:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by coderednation2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its those damn burritos!
Without them,
1.) you wouldn't have had to use the microwave.
2.) you would'nt have had anything to throw at the wall.
3.) you would'nt have a "Fat A**" so the teacher would never have called you that.
Next time, bring a sandwich.
2007-02-08 06:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by SGT. D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute... Your avatar says "sewar tank." You went to a freezer? to heat a burrito? You were punching the walls? Have you heard of anger management? Get a grip, sounds like you are looking for trouble. If you present the facts with your angry demeanor, you loose validity to your argument. Jus my opinion.
2007-02-08 05:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by nickname 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight, you threw a burrito at the wall.. then began pounding doors, and you expect to get her for verbal abuse cus she called you fat butt? Were you even supposed to be there in the first place??
2007-02-08 05:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Doug F 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I think that it would definately be considered verbal abuse. There is no reason why a teacher, someone who is considered an authority figure at a school, should ever talk to a student that way. I would definately file a complaint. Next time just keep your cool and head to the office and file a complaint.
2007-02-08 05:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by Angelina 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Where exactly was this microwave you were using? The only microwaves I ever recall at school were in the teachers conference room. Which you are not allowed to be in there. If this is the case, then this is a lack of respect on your part and a big overreaction again on your part.
2007-02-08 05:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are such a jackass I can't believe it. You have not been abused, you have been disrespectful, disobedient and have lost your anger and all sense of courtesy. You are TOTALLY in the wrong.
2007-02-08 06:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if you went where you weren't supposed to, you were told to get out and you threw a fit.
Youth today... no respect, just whine, whine, whine.
2007-02-08 05:59:39 · answer #11 · answered by kathy059 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋