almost a year ago we saw eachother and intstantly hit it off.I was still bitter about catching my x of a few years cheating(they r mutual friends)he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to slee pin the bedn with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was so sweet.things were awkward when we woke the next morning,a mutual friend said he liked me but was freaked about my x(who still1 1/2 yrs later)is trying to get me back.I saw him again 2 months later,he came to me and said"your killing me"my x was also there and upset that we liked eachother.i sent him a text a couple weeks later,he never replied.I saw him 6 months after at a party,he walked in saw me and looked away quick.my x was there also,its hard to not be around me x because my brother is best friends with him.Why did this guy not say hi when he saw me?
2007-02-08 05:28:12 · 5 answers · asked by kerri r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he wants to aviod serious drama. In his eyes being involved with you will cause more complications then he wants so he aviods you to aviod the "extra work." Try talking to him. Do you have his e-mail? E-mail him a letter because from the looks of things if he has to talk to you face to face it will not happen. SO a letter is always better because you can express yourself better and he does not have to feel the pressure of the face to face conversation and his response to your letter will be true and with out pressure. I do not believe that he does not like you at all or the things that happend would not have happen. I do believe however that he feels intimitated by the fact that your ex-boyfrined is always around and he is always trying to get with you.
2007-02-08 05:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you stop to think that he is still hurt by your behavior. Wake up smell the coffee, get over the ex and move on. But before you get involve with someone else, look at your past relationship and look at yourself and what you did wrong in the relationship and how you can improve on yourself, then ask yourself what do I want in a guy that I would want to spend the rest of my life with and have his 84 kids. Then that the guy you go looking for and don't settle for less. Oh don't have the guy sleep with you like that it sounds so embarrassing. That what husband are for.
2007-02-08 13:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to start a new relationship with someone else u have to stay away from ur ex. being in the same place with him, hanging around him all the time is like a threat to the new guys. they won't come near u if ur ex is around believe me it is a turn off. try to cut him loose.
2007-02-08 13:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he saw you and probably your ex as well(although not together, still in the same area though) sitting in the same room. Either that, or he has a big case of the "this is just too weird for me!" syndrom!
2007-02-08 13:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By him staying that made it awkward..and now that this other guy is around it makes it even worse..just leave it alone...
2007-02-08 13:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by classy_uic_chic11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋