I just found out that the man i love is bisexual, he is currently dating a man for the first time but he says he still loves me too! Should i give him a change to figure out what he wants or should i run?
2007-02-08 05:25:32 · 27 answers · asked by purplecasinokitten 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont consider it cheating because even though i am in love with him we are just dating, And i know he is very responsible about using protection
2007-02-08 06:01:47 · update #1
Run... I consider this to be cheating, however if you don't I guess stay.
2007-02-08 05:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by codenamex_47 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with a woman being with a bisexual man however you did mention that he's currently dating a man for the first time but he loves you. So why does he need to date someone else, even it's a different gender. It doesn't matter if he's dating the same gender because the fact that he's dating means he's still looking. I think you should talk to him about that. But on the topic of if it's wrong to date a bisexual man, no i don't think so.
2007-02-08 05:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by niteangelcat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would run and I'll tell you why. If you knew he was bisexual to begin with, that would be fine. Nothing is more hurtful than liking someone who is gay and that person won't admit it or finding out they're bisexual when you learn they have a boyfriend. I been in this situation a couple of times and it hurt me, while obviously it did not hurt the man so much because he had not developed the same type of feelings for me. I would not get involved, if you love him and he knows this, obviously he prefers the man over you. Find someone new.
2007-02-08 05:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
whoooo.. i guess. i wouldnt be happy with a bisexual man. I am bisexual myself. And maybe this is really judgemental. But i could never be with a man that is WITH other men. My man loves it tho, that i am with women too. So its totally up to you. If your okay with it, and your feelings for him havent changed. Keep him. If your not 100% okay with it.. and you feel like your feelings have changed... give it a break for awhile, and see where your heart takes you. Good luck.
2007-02-08 05:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by misskaykai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW you've gotta be careful here.
One thing about bisexual people - they are ALWAYS bisexual. If you actually have a serious relationship with him he's gonna want to be with guys too - CAN YOU HANDLE THAT? And most of them will be gay.
Some people are going to be bite my head off, but the truth is, HIV is FAR more prevalent in gay men than in the general population. Not politically correct, but 100% true.
You REALLY gotta think this one through.
2007-02-08 05:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-26 03:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all depends on what you want out of the relationship and what he can offer. Do you want monogomy? Is he willing to be faithful to you? Are you okay with him having his fling on the side? Do you want to possiblly spend forever with him? Can he be what you want. being bisexual isnt a free ticket to sleep around. I am bisexual and married. I do not cheat on my husband.
2007-02-08 05:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's dating someone else, then he's not being true to you. It doesn't matter if he's dating another man or a woman. Tell him that he has to choose between you and the other person, because you shouldn't have to put up with his two-timing.
2007-02-08 05:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all that is your choice. Do you want to be his one and only or do you want to share him with another? I personally could not be with a bisexual man, not because I believe they are less than straight men but because I do not have all the required parts to keep them happy.
2007-02-08 05:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by rothe_jabbuk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No...that's not cool at all...men with men usually have unprotected sex which could put you in danger...if you've slept with him get tested and get tested FAST! Not saying bisexual men can't like women too but if he's seeing a man too, that's no good
2007-02-08 05:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
for your own sake, i would say go, i know you love him but when a person is unsure about their sexuality, that can cause significant conflict betweeen lovers,, he may eventually go fully gay and there you are left alone, after you invested even more time into waiting around...plus how long should one wait?...it just isnt fair for your heart!..since you love him it will hurt and probably be a little tough to decide but leaving him now will save you the grief of leaving him later and it hurting worse! good luck!
2007-02-08 05:41:49 · answer #11 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋