I need some attention too, not just her son. There's a woman at work that I talk to about this and we've gotten close. She's hinted a couple of times that she would take care of what's missing in my relationship.
What should I do?
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2007-02-08 05:23:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cant believe you even asked this question. oviously you dont really care for your girlfriend or you wouldnt even be thinking about it. i hope she reads this and kicks you to the curb.
2007-02-08 05:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by CountryGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude . You can share with a little kid. This little guy needs attention i am sure.A child doesn't exactly understand what in a minute or hour means you do ! Kids can get hurt quickly and easily. Be patient if she is pretty and fun you know she is worth it. If she treats you like a dog then find another girlfriend. If you just don't get everything you want when you want it then think. In order to be with her you have to accept the child and the child in her and your her life. The good and bad and that she is a mom first .Then a grilfriend or whatever else second ! Not every woman makes a good mother. It is commendable for her to be one. Having a fling doesnot replace the love in a relationship. Share and care and be a better person for it !!! She will make it up to you eventually if she is a good girlfriend.
2007-02-08 20:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by conan999 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her and tell her that you feel like your not important to her. If she really cares about you she will find a way to give you more attention! Offer to help her, maybe by paying for a baby sitter for a night so you two can have some alone time. Whatever you do dont cheat if you cant work things out break it off. by the way the woman at your work is a slut any woman offering to have sex with someone who they know is in a relationship dosent have any respect for herself or anyone else
2007-02-08 13:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by purplecasinokitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your g/friend and see what she says. Even if you are a mum you should make time your the one you are with. Im sure her child goes to bed. Why not do things then? It should be peaceful.
Well good luck, dont cheat rather just leave her before you do anything like that.
Good luck
2007-02-08 13:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already read your blog and your conclusions are wrong, your ideas are too childish to take them as a serious choice.
By the way people like you make easy to believe English have words like motherf***er, do not you think??
2007-02-08 13:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by j9313150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then you shouldn't cheat on her. Try to help her with the kid and then maybe she will have time for you. V-day is coming up, Hire a babysitter and take her out for the nite.
2007-02-08 13:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by cholia 4 life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care what you think, or what anyone else tells you, there is never, NEVER EVER a reason to cheat.
Real men don't cheat. Despite what people say; because real men can resist the temptation and deliver. Just don't do it.
2007-02-08 13:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Remi Hime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never cheat! just have a conversation with her and tell her that this is bothering you a lot! and that her neglection is harming your relationship a lot. If you both agree to separate, you're free too f..k every girl you want!
2007-02-08 13:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by teen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never cheat on your gf!!!!!!! Please don't make that mistake. IF you don't think that things are going to work out, then break up with her, and THEN go find someone else. Whatever you do, don't cheat on her because it will come back and bite you in the ***.
2007-02-08 13:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by Drea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to punish her for being a good mother, then break up with her. never cheat. you should have known this when you got with her, the kids always come first. and that is really immature.
2007-02-08 13:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋