well as just mentioned im 17 living with a 35 year old he is not my boyfriend or relative. but there is a huge problem i am an extremely smart person (example can 3rd in Australia in science and engineering) an i know alot about the human body. now the problem is that he thinks he knows everything and even when i know im right he argues and thinks im a kid so he should know more. i dont know if he cant admit it 2 himself that a 17 year old can know just as much about life as he does or what.
and to make things even better his girlfriend is a year older then me and she is stupid yet treats me as an inferior
2007-02-08 05:03:48 · 32 answers · asked by jacquelinemeddows 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You think you know as much about life? What makes you think this? I see in one of your answers that you claim to be a "sex and relational therapist." When were you licensed, ms. 17 years old?
2007-02-08 05:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by Philip Kiriakis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you come on as being a know it all? Obviously he has a problem in that he has an 18 year old girlfriend so he is a cradle snatcher and as for her she is so dumb to be hanging around a man almost twice her age. I would ignore her but as far as the situation goes I would not argue with the man as he is probably baiting you as some people just love to argue and life does not revolve about knowing a lot about the human body but all manner of things and he may have had a lot of experience in day to day situations which you would not have had at 17.
2007-02-08 05:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by genie81au 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe that the 3rd smartest person in Australia writes so unintelligibly.
Or is dumb enough to live with a 35 year old man.
Someone who knows so much about the human body should know that the only thing a 35 year old man could want from a 17 year old girl IS her body.
And his girlfriend KNOWS this.
Being smart isn't everything. Wisdom is a totally different issue. Teenagers don't understand this because they simply can't. It comes with age (for most of us).
One of the biggest ways a young person demonstrates their lack of maturity is to constant tell people how mature they think they are.
WOW 6 thumbs up and counting. I have never got that many before.
2007-02-08 05:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 8⤊ 0⤋
You need to be a bit more humble. This man is older than you and while you may be academically more intelligent than him, it is highly unlikely you have more experience then him. He may be a person who wants to take a young person, who has so much potential, under his wing. He may see you as a son who he can teach. It seems as though the tone of your question is a bit sarcastic and patronizing. Lighten up, try not to engage him in arguments and don't one up him; attempt to deescalate arguments before they happen. It seems as though he's not very intelligent, and it's not your job to school him; just be his friend, and let his stupid answer go in one ear and out the other.
Don't sweat his girlfriend either, she may have this attitude that she is superior to you, but it's just an illusion created in her little mind.
2007-02-08 05:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ron P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! They both treat you as a kid because you are a kid. I am not sure about that 18 year old girlfriend, but she must have something. A year's growth on you, anyway.
Get the heck out of there! This is a really bad situation. And just why aren't you still at home?
2007-02-08 05:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not to be rude but nothing about the "statement" sounded very smart
does not sound right for a 17 year old to be living with a 35 year old man as well as him having a girlfriend who is 18 ---- someone has a problem
2007-02-08 05:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by dreamingone39 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why the hell is a 17 year old teenager living with a 35 year old man?? And why is he dating an 18 year old girl.. This is not normal so no wonder you have problems with him.. Get away well you can!
2007-02-08 05:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well this answer has nothing to do with this question but u emailed me saying that wat i said was not true. well i mean it all depends. my first time i bleed and ALOT of my other friends did too. so from my personal sources i believe that u do bleed and it will hurt because i mean u never did have anything go up ur private part before. u know something so big and far up there u know. so i mean just because U might have not bled or it didn't hurt u then hey that's u, not every female so i mean there could be females out there that u know they didn't bled or it hurted during their first time but i'm pretty sure that it's alot of females that have bled and was hurting
2007-02-08 06:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by •°iiFia1125°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing living with a 35 year old
2007-02-08 05:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ans 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm certain that you're quite intelligent and have a lot going for you, but the fact is that you are only 17. You don't know much about life because you haven't had the opportunity to experience much of it. I'm sorry if he is being genuinely condescending. There is nothing wrong with being 17.
2007-02-08 05:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by Rob D 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋