My bf is in the Navy, and my dad hates him cause he found out that we had premarital sex. We have both apologised to my dad, but he is determined to keep us apart, so i am not allowed to contact him at all, and he can only call me once a day for 20 min. Sometimes he forgets to call me or is just to tired to call cause he had a hard day at work, and i understand that completely but when i dont get to talk to him i feel horrible cause i miss him so much. lately he's been really tired and i havent gotten to talk to him much, and i feel kinda upset about it but i dont think i should be upset. Am i being unreasonable? i know he tries...
2007-02-08 05:02:01 · 4 answers · asked by siberian_tigress88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am definitely fighting my dad on the rules, everyone i have talked to, including my pastor, thinks hes being childish about this
2007-02-08 05:09:37 · update #1
It is okay for you to be upset... However, you should understand where he is coming from. I know how you feel, trust me. But the guy is working hard all day and sometimes he probably wants to just pass out. But your bf isn't 100% right either. If he really does care for you, and knows that you miss him that much when you don't get a call, then he would find the time to give you a 1 minute call just to say "Hey babe, I love you. But I'm really tired today so I kinda want to just sleep."
2007-02-08 05:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Falsefaith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a certain degree, you are and are not being unreasonable. On the other hand, your father(I can only assume your age to be over 18 otherwise your father would have had your bf arrested already!) is being rather a jerk about it all, given what little information you gave about him. Now, as to your bf not calling you, well let's look at the military life shall we? In the military, you are on duty pretty much 24/7 365+ days a year. Even if you have "down time", you can still be required to do duty because someone messed up or didn't show up for a shift. Or even just because you were randomly "volunteered" to do something becasue nobody else was avaliable! That and people in the military are always doing something and not just polishing boots or peeling potatoes! For the time being, until your bf has gotten his own place to stay and has "regular" work hours(yeah, right!), be patient.
2007-02-08 13:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should be upset.if he really cares for you how matter how tired he is he will give his effort to call you so that you will feel ok if he cares for you that much.
2007-02-08 13:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a tough situation, are you letting your dad win?
2007-02-08 13:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by tain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋