How can i convince my15 yr old son not to take his realtionaship with his gf seriously?

Answer 1

Very important to keep the lines of communication very open. Sit down and explain to him, that he has many other things to accomplish in life, and girls, females, women. They are not going anywhere. Boys & Girls will be chasing eachother for the rest of time. Ensure that he is giving adequate time to studies, chores, family life, friends. Not spending all of his free time with the girlfriend. Not healthy. Give him limits, you are his mother. Sit down with him and come to an agreement of when he will be available to see her. Not every day, every waking hour, not all of the time. He must be involved with activities that do not include the girlfriend.As his mom make sure he is aware of what condoms, birth control, sexually transmitted diseases are and how to prevent them. Make sure he is aware and praticed in the proper use of a condom. This can be done by using the forefinger and middle finger. Dont leave it up the girl to be able to securely and safely fit the condom. Better safe than sorry. Educating him is not condoning but informing him. As his mom, ensure that he has the tools to succed and grow. Good luck. God bless****

Answer 2

Unfortunately, you can't, and as hard as it sounds, he will have to learn the hard way. My brother did the same thing. He fell in love in high school, and bought an engagement ring for her. Even though my whole family knew she was a harlot, no good for him and only wanted him to support her. He went into the Navy and then faked a mental illness to get out of it so he could go to her. Not even a month after he was home, she dumped him. It wasn't until then that he realized that he had screwed up big time, and lost his chance in the Navy over it.

Answer 3

My two cents.
You can't.

The best you can do is explain as best you can what the possible outcomes may be and how to protect himself.

He won't listen, that's part of being a teenager, hopefully he'll survive. And it may even work out that it will turn into a serious relationship. It can happen.

Answer 4

Don't think you can, sorry. Part of being 15 is being stupid, and falling in "love". You can try to explain to him how much people change in such a short period of time (freshman year of high school to senior year in high school, same with college) or that by tying yourself down to someone you are limiting your opportunities in the future for travel, etc. and to grow and learn who you are, but I think a lot of people in high school have relationships with this feeling of, this is the only person in the world I will ever love and will ever love me. It's sad, but the immaturity at that age causes you to think slightly unrealistically about love and life.

Answer 5

Well in a way I would say to just let him know there are plenty of fish in the sea and he is still young. If he thinks they could go that long run of staying together and getting married more power to him but it probably won't last.

Answer 6

at his age they think they know everything you are just going to have to let him find out for himself,,,as a mother of four sons I know that you do not want to see your child hurt ,,,,but sometimes you can talk until you are blue in the face ,,,,they have to fall on their own just be there to help him back up,,,this is just from one mom to another ,,by the way my boyz are 17,16,13,13

so I am feeling your pain.....

Answer 7

Connect him with a good male mentor that can give him good advice.

Answer 8

why not advise him to be safe and just have fun i dont think there is much you can do, cause if you harrass him he will just stop telling you stuff and i dont think as a mom you want that, just be supportive and tell him and make it clear that you would appreciated for him to be safe