Ladies only: Is it a turn-off when a guy has a belly?

Answer 1

For me, Yes! It's just not attractive!

Answer 2

It is only a turn off if they're a slob about it. If he works out and has other nice features, it's no big deal. There are women who only will date svelte guys, just like some guys won't look twice at a girl with a little extra weight.

You know, it's all in the eye of the beholder. For me back hair doesn't bother me but nose hair does. I don't mind a belly but I can't stand a big round butt on a guy. To each his (or her) own!

Answer 3

Yes, i personally prefer a toned stomach at least. Then again this is thinking only in terms of initially being physically attracted to someone...... if a really got to know a guy say as a friend first and started liking him, i could put less emphasis on a perfectly toned stomach, and wouldnt mind if he didnt work out etc, but at the same time im not thinking a huge belly or wht could be called fat....as im really slim and so would expect a guy to make a similar effort to take care of himself for him and to want to make an effort for me. Things like having a 'belly' kinda matter as its sumthin tht can be controlled by the person if they put in the effort and either worked out alittle bit (doenst have to be a six pack stomach just not really wobby or sumthin) and didnt eat too much!!! Plus says sumthin about how u see yourself, if the guy has made the effort to keep his body nice then he obviously cares about himself and has high aspirations and targets, and plus wants to be seen as attractive for his own self respect! and thts the type of guy you want to date, not someone who doesnt care or isnt driven to make the best of things.
But in terms of mere physical attractiveness yes a belly is def a turn off, id compromise if i really already liked the guy as i sadi to a certain extent but it would be so much more appealing to see him without a shirt if it was toned.

Its probs partly down to evolutionary psych, a toned stomach wud denote youth and a guy who is driven and ambitious, and incavemen days wud thus have probs been a good hunter, plus a toned stomach probs denotes he works out so may be strong, and thus in evoluntionary terms can defend from predators etc, so were probs intune to see a belly or fat as a turn off!

Answer 4

For me - no - but it depends on the size of the belly too. And I think that age may play a role in this - as we all gain weight and have bellies when we get older :)

Answer 5

You know it really doesn't matter if you love that person. Now if you are vain then it's going to matter, because you just want someone who is as perfect as you think you are. If the guy has a belly and it bothers you them dump him.

Answer 6

No it just more to love :) Ii've been married for 4 years as of yesterday and my man has a belly... But all women are differnt... Remember big men have more heart and like you for who you are..

Answer 7

Yes, if his belly walks in the room before he does.

Answer 8

Yes and no it depends how big is the belly

Answer 9

Ladies prefer to have guys with good nature, good at heart and intellignt or economically stable. Most girls do not give importance to looks. also sense of humar helps to get attention.

Answer 10

I love guys with a bit of belly, nice butt, nice arms, luv them

Answer 11

No not to me. My husband has a little bit of a belly but he's not extremly overweight but I like it on him. He's my teddy bear.