How do you get away!!?

Question

My bf and i love to hang out with our friends...only problem is that every fricking time we get together...we end up with our friends...its really hard to see each other at other times too because he lives an hour away from me...so we see each other like once or twice a week.......and its always with our friends!! and its driveing both of us nutts cause we REALLY want to get away and have some serious one on one time...i mean we dont even get to make out very often or kiss at all because our friends are always around...and dont get me wrong...i love our friends...their awesome...but HOW DO I GET MY BF ALONE!!! and how can HE get me away from other people????

One more thing....we aren't inviting our friends...they just appear there....

Again...its not that simple...and when i say a few friends i'm talking like 15 or so friends...and best friends that we've both known for awhile...not exactly like you can tell em to buzz off...

okay just to clarifiy...were old enough...but we have very limited transportation....aka...lack of vehicles... friends always end up giving us rides and he can't afford a car right now...

Answer 1

There's no reason why you should keep ending up with your friends. If he lives an hour away, you guys must make quite a trip to visit each other, why not go out to eat, just the two of you.

Or if your friends seem to be out everywhere you go, why not meet each other half way, at a town midway each other and go out there.

Answer 2

Why not spend some time alone at your house? Or his house? Are you still living at home with your parents? Why can't you just get in the car and go somewhere alone without telling friends, like to a park?

Maybe, just maybe, if you're not old enough to have your own place or the ability to go off by yourself, perhaps your not old enough to be alone with your b/f. Being around friends can be a good thing.

Answer 3

Make other plans somewhere else. Turn off your cell phones. Make yourselves inaccessible. If you have the kind of friends that will respect your need for privacy, then tell them. If not, tell them you will both be away, but not where. If your friends make extensive efforts to interrupt your plans, then someone has a problem and you need to sort that out - even if it means excommunicating them from your circle of friends.

Answer 4

just hold his hand and go to the rest room with him but instead turn to other corner of the street..

u and ur bf can also try to slow down ur walking pace.. so u walk slower and will have chance to walk with ur boyfriend privately at the back..

u can also pull him out of the group and go somewhere else with him awhile..

and finally play hide and seek with all ur friends in a park, so hide with him

Answer 5

Just do it. When your friends are doing something, just walk away and disappear for a while. No need to tell them why, just do it.

Answer 6

What is so hard about being along? Just be alone. You don't have to invite your friends to do everything with you.

Answer 7

I really can't get what's your problem why don't you tell your boyfriend to get along ALONE without friends.It sounds simple to me and what I would do.

Answer 8

Just tell you're friends if they can give ya'll some time alone

Answer 9

Just tell them you want to be alone with your BF.

Answer 10

Why is this a problem?

You should be able to be fairly candid about this with your friends, and expect them to be understanding.

If not, tell them to buzz off!

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