2007-02-08 04:34:30 · 15 answers · asked by Pinky 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very cutesy question- the answer is, love IS blind. We don't SEE someone and fall in love them right away, we FEEL his soul- we SENSE that he's the right one. It has nothing to do with whether or not we can see if his face is handsome.
Love at first sight is real. Because true love is from God. I'm a Christian, I believe in God! And for that reason I believe that there is love at first sight. God sometimes maybe lets people (like me) see right away who He intended them to love and marry. Love is different with everyone because we are all different! You can't describe true love for anyone! Everyone's experience of loving or being in love is totally unique. Because we area all unique!
I am so tired of the people that say smugly, "i believe in lust at first sight" because they don't know. I don't have problems with lust, and I have experienced that feeling of "wow, look, there he is, the guy I was created for". I just looked at his eyes from the side and I got that feeling. I wasn't looking at his body at all.
Please believe me- that even if it hasn't happened to you, or never will, it is POSSIBLE
Please do not listen to these other people. Although they mean well, I know personally that there can be real, true, lasting love (not LUST or INFATUATION! Boy am I sick of those dumb words! People just use them to sound grownup and wierd and fancy shmancy! {not to "dis" you other folks, but that's what it seems like to me :)} at first meeting- and yes, even at first sight. As to what it feels like... everyone is totally different. If you think you are in love, and you love someone very much, more than any one else, than you ARE in love- for the time being. You may, who knows, some day, find someone else who you will be able to love even more. Not because you didn't love the first one- you did, as much as you could at the time. But each new person you fall in love with you seem to be able to love more. Who can say whether we are all in love a dozen times in our life, or if we only "really" love one of those people, or if we never "truly" loved any of them? Love is different for every person, at every different time. Sometimes it makes you sad, sometime it makes you happy, sometime insecure, sometimes confident. No one knows. But if you think you're in love, then tell yourself you are and go with your emotions, whether you become mournfully melancholy or exuberantly happy. There is nothing sweeter than feeling something deeply and telling yourself you're in love, whether it's for an hour or a lifetime- or eternity.
I fell in love from first sight with someone I only met once a year ago. I still am. For many reasons in a long story, we can't contact each other, nor do we "date" so there isn't a questions of all that "faithfulness" junk. But I knew at the first second that I was made for him and someday God will see we marry and live happily ever after. Sometime I will type up the whole story and post it on every "love at first sight" page and question and blog in the whole wide internet. Again, I am not saying that love at first sight is the only right kind of love. Maybe you will hate the person you eventually fall in love with! Maybe it will take you years to gradually love them! Who knows? I am not saying that it is the only true kind of love. With some people, it may take a while to fall in love with their soulmate. But love at first sight is so very possible! Sometimes the good Lord is kind enough to show you right away. Like he showed me. The moment I saw him standing there, I knew all about him. His character- how kind and sweet he was, how helpful and patient. And don't say I was judging a book by its cover. Later in the day I met up with him again and talked to him for five hours at that wedding reception. And my first impression- that split second thought of "this is who I was created for and am meant to marry" was strengthened. And he is in my every thought and dream. I don't give a passing thought or glance to anyone else- it's just out of the question. I’ve only seen him only 3 times over the years. It’s been so long. But I still love him! I do! It’s real! I fell in love when I was only 13. But that’s how old Juliet was, and it was love at first sight and no one questions her! No one says “Oh, Juliet was so dumb, she didn’t REALLY love romeo, she just killed herself because she THOUGHT she did”. Why should you say that about me?
There is love at first sight.
Not lust.
Not infatuation.
Not a crush.
Not a passing attraction.
Real, true, lasting, beautiful, perfect love.
Believe
2007-02-08 07:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by nemo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all know that love is not blind and that statement is false. If love were blind there would be no single people in the world. Brad Pitt would date Uma Thurman, Halle Berry would date Paul Wall.
Everyone whether they admit it or not is only attracted to a person by there looks the first time they see someone. I have yet to turn to my boy as we walk in the mall and tell him, "Dog, That girl has a sexy personality. I bet she could make me laugh." Who does that??
Love at first site is merely an attraction to another person's physical appearance.
2007-02-08 05:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by voodoo_lover_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in love at first sight! I used to until I realized it wasn't about love but about a physical lustful attraction.....Life and relationships has taught me that love takes time to build and grow.......I do believe love can be blind because if you truly love someone you can see past there flaws......
2007-02-08 04:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is most blind when it's love at first sight.
2007-02-08 04:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by P K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love interior the commencing up sight is impossible. Love is a few situation you have have been given for human beings who're very close. How can a character you spotted at college and set your eyes on be close whilst interior the top you be attentive to he could be a nazi. you don't be attentive to three situation relating to the guy different than for his seems. the article human beings call "love interior the commencing up sight" is charm to start with SIGHT which later evolves into love.
2016-11-02 21:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by barn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe love at first sight, i believe that u just love what u see, u have to really know a person and what there like to really love them
2007-02-08 04:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by pretty girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont try to spin those quotes.
Love is blind when it's love at first sight, because love at first sight is ignoring (being blind to) all other factors weighing in.
love being blind
and love at first sight coexist
2007-02-08 04:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know Pinky, but the fact that you asked twice must mean that it's definitely on your mind.
Did you find yourself questioning the whole "love at first sight" thing recently? Should I worry? You aren't going to stalk me now, are you?
2007-02-08 05:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the truth is that there is no such thing as love at first sight its all hyped to be true. you cannot fall IN love with some one you barely know!
2007-02-08 04:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by PrinCipeSSa ItaLiAnA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE at first sight does not exist.
LUST at first sight does exist. its love that keeps you together after the lust wears off.
2007-02-08 04:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋