I have been dating this guy that is seven years older than me for a couple of months. We have been knowing each other for a few years. I really care about him but he can not last in the bedroom longer than two minutes. I have tried everything in my power to spruce up the bedroom and I still end up with the same results. Do I need to stick around because I truely care about him or leave because it doesn't seem like it will get any better?
2007-02-08 04:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by Cherri 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to see his Dr. there are meds for that!
2007-02-08 04:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question...sex is a glue that helps to bond relationships. How much glue do you need? If sex is really important to you, then you may not be 'long-term" compatible. You have to weigh your choices as to what's most relevant to your own wants and needs. Sad to say, but most people who feel unsatisfied in their relationships eventually stray elsewhere to find it, so it's more complicated than "Just get over it" Try talking to him about it, without putting pressure on it...this only makes things worse, and weiners don't work well under pressure. It could be something as simple as stress on his part. Beats throwing the baby out with the bath water...
Male lions have sex up to 60 times a day...for 10 seconds at a time.
2007-02-08 04:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by woobinator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and see if he will consult a doctor. There are so many things out there to assist men and women in the bedroom area, don't give up love because he isn't lasting as long as you, most men can't do that, lol! Don't give up for that reason alone. Communicate with him how you feel and see if he is willing to try to work on the issue
2007-02-08 04:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one...
that can only be answered depending on how you feel about him.
if you really care about him so much, you shouldnt leave him for something like that. Even though its a conflict for you.... there has to be a way to have him last more than 2 minutes, thats not the problem.
2007-02-08 04:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mario R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seven years older, if you're like 22 thats not a big deal, if you're like 14 its illegal. Also 2 minutes is pretty bad, I'd say find a guy closer to your age with more stamina.
2007-02-08 04:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and think that you can handle it, then yes, you stay. There are other ways to satisfy yourself, and things that he can do for that matter. If you don't think that it is something that you can deal with, then I would suggest to go ahead and leave. If you haven't already, then you need to have a serious talk with him about it, and let him know that there are other options, but you are willing to work through them (that is if you really are). Good Luck.
2007-02-08 05:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be stupid for you to leave him if he doesn't last more then 2 minutes when you two have sex. If you really care about him then stay don't break up with him just becuase of that reason.
2007-02-08 04:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably needs to see a doctor who can explain some tricks to him! He needs to practice and the doctor can explain how to do this! It's called premature ejaculation! I'm sure if you look it up on the Internet you can find some info yourself!
2007-02-08 04:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by INC0GNIT0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to train his manhood. get him on the edge. over and over and over and over and over. get him to the edge and pull out and start doing something else start over and do the same. 20, 30 minutes of four play and then get it on. there might be some drugs out there that might help.
2007-02-08 04:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2007-02-08 04:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋