i just turned 14, and im still in middle school. My bestfriend, who is also my ex, is in his first year in highschool. We dated last year for 3 months. He moved on with 3 different gf since our break up. But in between each relationship he kept running back to me, and no matter how much i tried to hide it, i wanted him back too. We dont get to see each other much, but he tends to hold me as long as he can when we do hang out. My freinds just tell me that "were meant to be" but i dont think thats it. He and i have gone through so many ups and downs. He told me he still likes me, but he`s talking to another girl. I told him i still liked him too, but i didnt want to have any problems with him because i dont want to put our friendship at risk. I just want to know why do we keep running back to each other? Should we just give it another try, or let this feeling go AGAIN.
2007-02-08 04:31:54 · 16 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he`s also been really hard on himself because he regretted being with those other girls, and thats one reason why he doesnt want to have another relationship.
2007-02-08 04:40:03 · update #1
I think he does like you, but he does not wants to commit yet. Sounds like he wants to have fun with other girls and when he needs an ego boost or feels lonely comes to you. Talk to him, make him know that he can be either your boyfriend or your friend, but not whenever he feels like.
Dont get used to let guys come in and out of your life whenever they feel like, be strong and clear with them. If he wants you fien, if he doesnt or he is not sure then move on.
2007-02-08 04:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Michel DeQuevedo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep going back to eachother because you are comfortable with eachother, you already know lots of things about the other person and its convenient for you. If you want to try it again, but seriously you are 14 chances are very high that the 2 of you wont end up together. People grow apart and things change as you get older. Your friends are nice for thinking you are meant to be but they are also naive. Do what you want to do but dont expect this relationship to last forever.
2007-02-08 04:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♫♥ Crystal ♥♫♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it's obvious for some reason you two aren’t compatible (at least for now). As a rule of thumb, I don't get back together with anyone that I have already dated for at least a year. This gives both of you time to figure out what went wrong, figure out what you want in the relationship, and figure out if you've both changed enough for the relationship to work.
2007-02-08 04:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 You deserve better. If he is talking to other girls and intersted in more than just a friendship with someone else then you need to move on. You will find someone much better and who wants you and only you.
#2 You are still very young and he is not the only guy out there.
2007-02-08 04:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by gigimariebaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet heart he keeps running back because he knows you are always going to be there. Your like the rebound girl and unfortunately he will continue to put you in these situations as long as you let him. Its almost like he compares these other girls to you but can't seem to find anyone to top you. He is stringing you along for the ride. and only wants you when he wants you. Be his friend and nothing more. If he was truely your friend he wouldn't hurt you over and over. I was always told "hurt me once shame on you hurt me twice shame on me" Hope every thing goes okay. im me at timikayoung on yahoo if you need to chat. as i councel kids at my Be careful and god bless
2007-02-08 04:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by timikayoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww puppy love. sweetie u r a rebound. he knows that u will always be there so he know that when he dont have anyone u are there. Snap out of it let him know that U are the boss and he cant keep playing with ur emotions. plus ur young have fun and dont be bounded by a guy, u have plenty of time for that
2007-02-08 04:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, there are other fish in the sea.
Drop him - he can't decide what he wants. And he's using you whenever other things don't work out. Is that really what you want to be, the fall back girlfriend?
2007-02-08 04:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by noncrazed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be u can give each other a try. or better pay attention to your studies. time will bring u back after ur both more mature if u r made for each other.
2007-02-08 04:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14 ! and starting a pattern that you will be in the rest of your life, dont let that happen, men will walk on you 4 ever
2007-02-08 04:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by clubchaos1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you. He only comes back to you when he can't be with the other girls. Let him go.
2007-02-08 04:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋