should i tell my Girlfriend....?

Question

that i wet the bed or not because she really want me stay with her one night but ireally don't want to beacuase i wet the bed but inside me it saying i should go and tell her i wet the bed and things will be fine i don't know it all confusing

really should i tell my girlfriend i wet the bed and how should i tell her i do?

i seen a doctor about it ok say can every one stop saying go see a docotor ij ust want to know should i tell my gf that i wet the bed and how should i tell her?

i am 14 and in 8th grade she is in 7 th grade

i really love her and she really loves me i don't know i am still confused

Answer 1

You're 14, you're still too young to be staying over at her house. Even if in 10 years from now you're married, right now, you're too young. As for you Sleep disorder. It depends on how mature she is. If she's the kind of person who laughs or gets uncomfortable in class when someone talks about poop, peeing, or sex, I'd suggest keeping it to your self because it IS your business. However, keeping secrets isn't the best idea in a relationship. Bed wetting isn't uncommon at your age. You're a guy, this happens. But alot of girls at this age don't understand that. You could just be under alot of stress right now. I don't think you need to see a doctor for bed wetting, unless you're having night terrors EVERY NIGHT along with them *a night terror, unlike the nightmare, is a fit where you may sleepwalk, bed wet, and scream out and lash about like you're in pain, and don't remember it at all, someone would have to point it out to you* in which case, I suggest going to a sleep clinic for an over night study. If it's really that important, start drinking more water during the day, about 8 glasses of 8oz of water daily. It'll clear up your system, make you healthier, and less thirsty. Then don't drink anything, especially soda, two hours before you sleep. This could stop the bed wetting. Then you wouldn't have to worry about telling her.
Best of luck
If you DO spend the night, cuddle, hug, but don't have sex, at her age, it's not even healthy for her body.

Answer 2

Depends

Answer 3

See a doctor find out what is the problem. If it is a ongoing medical problem and there is medication for it, the problem should be taken care of. In any case, I would let her know about the problem. Especially if you see this relationship as one that you want for life.

Answer 4

I know that this matter can be really embarassing and all but you should always be open an truthful no matter what. Good Luck. I'm sure that everything will work out fine.

Answer 5

You should tell her. Even if it doesn't seem like it she deserves to know or she might get the feeling you just don't want to stay with her. If she dumps you over it she's not worth it.

Answer 6

i think you shouldnt tell her anytime soon.. first of all, you might try to do something about wetting the bed, so you dont have to worry about it. if you can't.. then simply let her know and tell her how you feel about it. im sure she will understand you

Answer 7

See a doctor.

Answer 8

I think this is something she may want to know about you. Have you seen a doctor about it to make sure that nothing is wrong.

Answer 9

Dude.. tell her.. cuz it would be better for her to know before you do stay wit her.. you might wet her legs and stuff up.. dats so nasty.. den she might dump you.. and by da way.. HOW OLD ARE YOU??? U should be embarrassed!!

Answer 10

no broth don't do dat...jus if you wet dat bed tell her u where drunk and you had a bad or wet dream