If you have ever been in a relationship and you have cheated, how much of the time was your 'other half' right about accusing you of it? Do you think that women have a pretty good instinct about that stuff and should always trust what their gut is telling them? Even if you feel you have left NO proof that you have cheated....
2007-02-08 04:30:22 · 20 answers · asked by tlimsisnw7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mine knew right away. i had a different way about myself that she said i had when we first started dating. it had gone away, but returned when i was with my mistress.
2007-02-08 04:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different people have different abilities to notice things. You saying that women notice things by instinct is a stereotype.
As for me, there is only one time that I "cheated" in a relationship. Given how she was already busy cheating on me and never gave so much as a little indication that she noticed, I'd say no, she was too full of herself to even notice. When I look back on it, it makes less sad that I saw another woman than that I didn't take that opportunity to dump her. What can I say? I was 18 and foolish and I didn't recognize her behavior as abusive because emotional and psychological abuse wasn't recognized as such at the time. People might have said we had "issues." Well, the issue was that when I wanted to talk about sex and marriage her first comment was that I should see a prostitute first before I could even say that I think we should hold off until marriage... that and I should have dumped her right then and there.
2007-02-08 12:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by Cheshire Cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My X wife accused me of cheating on her all the time. Not once did I cheat. Not once did I even concider it. Personally I wouldn't rely on the gut feeling of a female because female feelings are based on emotion not logic or reason. I'm not slammin women just givin you the facts. One of the main reasons men can't understand women is because the men try to rationalize a womans behavior with logic, when the behavior was derived from emotion. emotion and logic are like oil and water. Do what you can to dig up some proof. One way or another you need closure. If you don't seek out proof this will drive you nuts. Good luck!!
2007-02-08 12:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by Yaasbut 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gut(instincts) don't really speak, they only lead.
You shouldn't always trust them. Use them to pay close attention to the one you ought to trust.
You don't have to apprehend him immediately if you think he's cheated.
Wait, watch, quietly observe.
if he is still too sleek, then ask yourself why you chose to be with him in the first place.
Women. Listen.
your instincts, intuition, blah blah, should serve you better in choosing your BFs/ spouses rather than catching them when you think they cheated.
2007-02-08 12:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by as_a_youngthief_in_da_night 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a flirter. It comes natural. I never cheated but was accused all the time. I've since changed my ways. I am much more shy now when my current fiancè is around.
2007-02-08 12:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by castzpg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you I did cheat on my girlfriend.Im not sure if she knew or what.But I have to agree that you should always trust what your gut is telling you.That's what I always do.Cheating is wrong and I learn that the hard way.
2007-02-08 13:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by wahid d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically, you'll have your answer long before you ask the question. Males and females alike are pretty intuitive about this if they really pay attention. Some are overly suspicious, and others in denial...but the signs are posted prior to the bridge collapsing.
2007-02-08 12:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by woobinator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never cheated, but my wife did. And, yes, you can tell if something is not right. She lied about it till I had a PI follow her, and even with photographic evidence, she still tried to say it was just friends. (One picture showed her kissing him and his hand under her shirt) If you feel something is wrong, check it out. But, From experence, don't confront them first, it gives them a chance to hide it better.
2007-02-08 12:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated on any girl and have been accused many times.
2007-02-08 12:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by links305 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So I'm guessing you cheated on your girlfriend and you're feeling guilty about it? And if you haven't cheated- Don't cheat, they always find out.
2007-02-08 12:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Some girls are just insecure and paranoid.
Of course, if you really are paranoid, then there is no point in me telling you this, because you won't believe me anyway.
2007-02-08 12:35:38 · answer #11 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋