Though they say that a person should think well of him/herself without any approbation from others, is it really true? I mean, for example, if a woman can get none men or only good for nothing men, she is not good. The same goes for a man.
If a woman is surrounded by men, and can get nice men, it means that she is wonderful. The same for a man.
It's like a product: when it's good, they buy it. When it's not, they
don't.
And this "you are a great person, you should not mind others, and feel great on your own" is just a consolation for people who fail to please others - with looks, or financially.
If others do not think the person is nice, then that person is not,
isn't it so?
2007-02-08 04:20:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I think that the worth of the person is defined by others. It's like diamonds: they decided to treat them as the most precious stones in the world, and they are.
2007-02-09 05:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that it is not so. Your logic is skewed. TOTALLY
Not to mention you seem to define 'good' and 'bad' with getting or not getting a member of the opposite sex.
No WONDER some of you younger people are so messed up these days!
2007-02-08 12:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't live my life on the approval of others.If I am good looking and financially stable, that is my own effort for myself. I don't live to please others. I live to love others as I love my self. I don't exist with bad men or bad people. I am a magnet to good people. And good man..
2007-02-08 12:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋