i told one of his family members that i was having a boy which is true i am having a boy but then i wrote to her telling her a lie and i said i dont know what im having but that nottrue i do know what im having then i felt bad about telling her that i was lieing that i wrote to her saying that my baby is realy a boy and that i just like her asking for her uncle my baby dad i dont like that she said to me that she dont even tk to her uncle about me or anything but i know she does so now i dont know whats going to happend if i go for child money from her uncle my babys daddy can i get in to trouble for saying that i was lieing to her about my baby being a boy cd i get in to trouble for that when i go for child money and no im not young either im 21 years old what should do the next time she calles which will not b for another 2 to 3 weeks bec she got what she wanted from me was for me to tell her what i was having i told her on the phone that i was not going to say anything to her
2007-02-08 04:19:57 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There are many good reasons for birth control, and I think that this is a perfect example of one. Also, If you don't want to tell her, just don't do it. Sheesh
2007-02-08 04:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what you're question is...and I don't really understand what you wrote. You told one of your baby's daddy's family members that you're having a boy, then you wrote her again telling her it was a lie, then you wrote again saying you really are having a boy. Ok...I don't understand about the uncle part and the child money part. Is her uncle your baby's dad? And are you going to go for child support? Oy I'm lost.
2007-02-08 12:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by blue_cow27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so im real confused here! who cares what you tell her or this guy? you can lie all day long to whoever you want and then still go for child support whats the fear you have? i dont get why you think revealing info about the baby matters cause it doesnt! that would be like tha babies dad saying oh its not my baby so now he doesnt have to pay...he can say it aint his all day long for 15 years but if DNA says it is his he will pay...stop trippin even if he lived with you and yall arent married you could go for child support but the best thing for you to do now is just stop talking to his family if yall aint together anyway cause usually it just causes trouble
2007-02-08 12:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by ELIZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of All Stop worrying.... your need of child support has no bearing about who u choose to tell about the sex of your child, If you said you lied then so what, that does not mean u are not entitled to child support. She sounds like a nosy relative and if you do not wish to talk to her about ur man or ur prenancy then do not take her calls...do not let other people intimidate you, at all! and stop stressing it is not good for your baby!
2007-02-08 12:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all calm down a bit.... it ok to tell people what your ahvine it wont effect anything your entittled to, tell as many people as you can so that his sister wont think she has something to hold over you, that way you will come out on top, tell people with pride taht your ahving a baby boy, and how excited and happy you are... his family will eventually get the picture that you are mature and wont fall for their stupid games
the saying
"two can play at that game" comes to mind,
so remember, dont fall pray to them.. make them come to you, as at the end of the day you will be the one with a loving son and beautiful child who will love and cherish you no matter what....
screw them...
good luck with the rest of the pregnancy... enjoy it!!
2007-02-16 07:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by lollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it really doesn't matter. You are making a big deal out of nothing. You really shouldn't have lied to her though maybe the father is concerned about you. Maybe you should talk to him directly instead of going through another person, unless he is abusive. Then you should totally stay away from him and his family.
2007-02-14 21:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b4 you got pregnant u should have been smarter than your infant will be. goodness, i feel sorry for this baby, and possibly your "baby daddy" as well. this just goes to show ya, not every easy piece is a great candidate for someone you will be bound to the rest of your life by becoming parents with.
2007-02-15 22:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I'm lost. Your 21 , pregnant and whats the ? ?
Listen, heres some advice, get an education first, second get child support and never talk to his side again. TOO MUCH DRAMA.
2007-02-08 23:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you lied about the sex of the baby doesn't mean you can't have child support! and its not a big deal that you told what the baby is, so just sit back and enjoy your pregnancy
2007-02-08 12:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its your business and you dnt' have to talk to her. just hang up and if the phone keeps ringing just pull the plug. its your business and whenyou get lawyer and go to court that will not be held against you.
2007-02-16 02:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋