I need some attention too, not just her career. There's a couple of girls I know that are interested in me. What should I do?
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2007-02-08 04:17:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a woman more attentive to your needs.
2007-02-08 04:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you are being neglected and taking second place to her career, then it sounds as though it isn't the right relationship for you. Both of you have different priorities...today its work, tomorrow it will be something else.
Cheating is the immediate fix...and will end in the ending of your relationship. Ultimatums are of no use either, as they may force her to make a decision she doesn't want to make.
Cut your losses...get out of the relationship...and find someone who will put you first. She's not a bad person...just not the right person for you.
2007-02-08 12:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to her to let her know those things? maybe hard on your part to express your concern about time, but i guess a little effort will help understand both sides instead of keeping a grudge and taking it all against her.
And in being that fair, at least you did your part by giving her a chance to explain or change.
If it still doesn't work (she still clings to her career with an entirely different goal from yours) maybe she isn't emotionally available for you, and you better move on.
And you don't have to be cheating anymore :-)
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2007-02-08 12:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never the answer.Talk to her!!! I mean really if you feel you need more attention then let her know instead of going out and hooking up with other girls WHILE you are in a relationship.If you dont want to be with her then break up with her dont cheat thats just stupid.
2007-02-08 12:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT CHEAT!! have you told her how u feel??? if not let her know and if there is no change after a certain amount of time (u gotta give her a chance!) then move on, but don't cheat it's the worst thing u can do. u then become a liar!!
2007-02-08 12:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by foxxylove20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you love your g/f? Communication, have you told her you how you feel? If you're feeling that bad, then break up with her but only after you tell her your feelings and give her a chance to make it right. Isn't your relationship worth it?
2007-02-08 12:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't cheat on her,just find a new girlfriend who works less and would like to spend more time with you
2007-02-08 12:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. Cheating may solve your problems. I'm sure when your wife finds out about it, you'll all have a big laugh.
2007-02-08 12:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play on, Playa, foshizzle Bizzle.
2007-02-09 00:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat on her...break up with her. Find someone that has time for a relationship!!!
2007-02-08 12:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋