Ok so here's the deal. I lived down in Florida for 6 months.. and yes i met the perfect guy ever, but now i'm home in California and we're still together.. we call eachother everyday and text every minute of the day. he's planning to visit me in june.. do u think we can work things out? i realllllyy love this guy a lot..
2007-02-08 04:16:25 · 19 answers · asked by latina_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no!
2007-02-08 04:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, but not without some difficulties, believe me. I'm here in the US, she's in Europe. We met over a year ago, and are still together (so to speak) We've see each other when we can up til now, and will finally be together in a couple of months. It's all about the two of you: how you feel, and how you deal with it. Sometimes it's gonna suck, without question...and more often than not, long-distance relationships fail. Then again, most relationships fail regardless of distance...one or both people just give up. It takes work, and patience, but it can be done.
The Hawaiians have a saying,
"`A`ohe loa i ka hana a ke aloha."
Distance is ignored by love.
2007-02-08 04:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by woobinator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have faith in it.
My boyfriend Thomas and I have known eachother OVER THE INTERNET, for two years, we dated on and off for a year.
There's always the doubts, in all of them. "How Do I Know He's Not Cheating?"
It's called a sense of trust. If you truely love him, then you should be able to trust him.
Closed-minded people will think of a million and two reasons why it won't work. But love is love, there is no distance that can come between it, no sex, no race. Nothing.
My boyfriend is visiting me next month, and we're going to start our life together right away, because I'm moving back to Florida with him. :]
Best of luck!
2007-02-08 04:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by hero_racer2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried long distance before actually a few times and none never worked out... You have be able to show and feel emotion and a human need certain things that a long distance relationship cant give... You say he comming to visit you in June? Then what? you have to wait another 6 months too see him again? Its just not worth it...
2007-02-08 04:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, they may last for awhile as you miss each other and are lonely. However, as with someone that loses a spouse, life goes on and eventually either you or he will meet someone else. You are probably young, and life is to short , so make yourself available. If you and your boyfriend were ment to be it will happen but in the mean time enjoy your life. Also, when he visits, sit down and have a heart to heart and discuss options of seeing other people. Also, don't be confident that he is not casually seeing someone while you are apart...it is human nature, especially if you are young.
2007-02-08 04:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Distance is not a barrier these days.If you think this is the guy then why have any doubts at all.Just go for it.If you both can make adjustments to see each other once in a while it will work well. I live in Canada and my guy is in India. But we are fighting the distance and bringing victories to our love! Good luck.
2007-02-08 04:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by mildew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
despite what everyone is saying, im gunna say yes. my boyfriend goes to college, and im still here at home. although he is only an hour away, i dont see him sometimes for weeks at a time. I think you guys can work things out if you really love each other. my boyfriend and i have been together for two years and things are great between us. And when he graduates, we're getting married :D
Good Luck!
2007-02-08 04:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by Strongman_Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell if your relationship can withstand the distance. I was in the same kind of relationship. Here I was in Illinois and my love was in South Carolina. He still lives there just visiting me now.
2007-02-08 04:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sexie Gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it can only work out if he is willing to eventually move over there with you. Long distance can only work if you see some way of eventually being together and not just visiting.
2007-02-08 04:20:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes if the love is strong enough and both of you are willing to make it work. But long distance relationships are very hard.
2007-02-08 04:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by ce 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can work as long as someone moves by the other within a year or so. Long distance relationship won't work for anything longer than that. I tried it, it's too hard.
2007-02-08 04:19:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋