I am 39 years old now, I was engaged but he gave up on me without explanation. I have said my story in my last resquest. Now, my concerned is if when I marry and stay pregnant for the first time, I will have some problems, I mean I know because of the age mother could has some riks, but I love children and I would love to be a mother someday. I am a teacher and I always do my best to help my students, children, teenager and adults also. I feel myseld happy when I contribute in some way to help. I have being patient and waiting the right man to share my life with, and I thought that I have already found him, but unhapply he gave up. Maybe my destiny is just be single, but I still have hopes to get mary someday but I would love to have babies also. Nevertheless, if God chooses me other mission, I will accept it with resignation and I would adopt children too. Children are gifts from God and the hopes to our world.
2007-02-08 04:10:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
How come he gave up on u?
U are still young, cause my sister just had twins at 46 yrs old.
Just find Mr. Right soon and have u some children.
2007-02-08 04:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey I know it looks dim and all, but there are other options. I really don't think its good to have kids after 45 because of the rising chances of mental disorders that seem to be shown more often then not, but a really good option is to always adopt a kid. Depending on where you live and what kind of services are available to you. In some areas you can acctually adopt at basically the time of birth and it would really be like having your own baby, and I think it is very honorable to do such a thing.
2007-02-08 04:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jdeuel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should give up on finding Mr. Right and enjoy being single to the fullest. I would highly recommend looking into adoption as a single mom. The time when a woman had to wait around for a man to make her whole has passed. Don't worry about what God has chosen for you. Choose for yourself to be a happy fulfilled single woman. 51% of all American women are single. You're in good company.
2007-02-08 04:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by Tricia R 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
these days you do not need a man in order to have a child. you have options, you said that you love to help children. if that's the case then, adopt. you will be helping many people by adopting.
good luck, and don't worry or try so hard, when the time comes you will be ready.
2007-02-08 08:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a TEACHER and you have as you say "hopes to get mary someday". Maybe if you had hopes of getting MARRIED someoday things would work out for you.
2007-02-08 04:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by Monty L 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋