should i expect something??

Question

as we all know it's valentines day really soon. i have been seeing this guy, we talk all the time, been out a few times as well. we like each other. but should i expect something for valentine's day?? and if i do not get anything what does that mean???

Answer 1

Nope, not until it's official. But boy if you both go out, there will be a lot of tension to take your relationship to the next level. If you have any doubts, avoid the subject and, on that day, as far in advance, plan to do something with your single friends like go bowling or watch a movie so that you aren't with him that night.

That will allow your relationship with him to grow naturally and without the pressure of "special days."

Answer 2

Don't expect something yet, some guys just aren't good with this sort of thing. But if he does get you something it'll probably be small but if he gets you anything you can bet he's probably really into you. But either way, do get him something small like a box of candy and a card, and at least he'll know you care. He might just be embarassed to get you something because he don't think you like him. You'll know soon enough.

Answer 3

You should get something small but not of alot of value, I mean not like a married couple or people that have been dating for years. Maybe candy or flowers. If you don't get anything, don't worry too much because he just doesn't feel like it is serious enough. BUT...most guys won't show up empty handed, so don't worry. Good luck!

Answer 4

yes, me and my b.f was meeting each other before a Valentine for a month, and he sent me a gifts and i sent him too.. because we was not lover but we like each other... so expect something and be ready to give him too... and if he didn't send to u don't be sad maybe he don't think u are the right person yet maybe next year he will give u gifts in that day.. good luck

Answer 5

You shouldn't "expect" anything. Whether he gets you something or not doesn't mean if he likes you any more or any less. Why do people derive the meaning of their relationship based on the gifts that they do or don't get? That's what I hate about holidays like this.

Answer 6

If you two are really that close, and you feel there may be a future, I am sure you are expecting something. Just remember, even though he may not get you anything, do not take it personally. He may not be ready to "claim" you is love. He may just be in a playful relationship mode right now.

Answer 7

*****************BEST ANSWER*****************
No, don't expect anything.
Expectations only lead to disappointment and sabotages relationships.
Know why? The other person probably has NO IDEA of what YOU expect.
You'll have to tell the other person what you like and what you'd expect.
That's being honest and up front. Then, it will direct him on what makes you happy.
Now, if you don't - that's not being fair to him. If he doesn't come through, then you'll be mad - and he'll not know why. Both lose in that case.

One love................

Answer 8

Don't expect anything. If you get nothing, don't worry about it. You've only been out a few times.

Answer 9

Uhmmm..i think that he will get something for u! But don't get ur hopes up incase he doesn't. If he does then it means he totally likes u. Good luck with it ! xx

Answer 10

don't sit around and "expect" something. If you really like this guy then you ahould definatly get him something, and if he doesn't get you nothing in return, atleast he knows you care.