What if you like dominant men sexually and understanding, sensitive men in life. Who you will choose?

Question

i am very attracted to dominant wild men in bed, but in everyday life a man who can understand me and we can have a conversation. An honest dedicated man. Who you will prefer to have in life.

Answer 1

You can have both if you're patient and open enough.

Trade secret about being a guy: Most of us will happily do anything a woman asks in bed.
If that's being the dominant guy then that's what you should be upfront about.

There is no need to be a lion in the sack and an ******** out if it.

A good man will understand that.

Answer 2

Well there are two issues here: 1) You're a strong, outgoing person, so more submissive men (or in some cases just men who have an over-active need for equality to women) are drawn to you. 2a) Men who have been taught since they were born to treat women as their equals and to have more respect for women than themselves are not comfortable being dominant in bed, rather they are conditioned to treat women with respect at all times. 2b) If they're submissive, then of course they want to be dominated. At any rate, our society frowns upon aggressive men, while not all men get the message, a lot of them do, and we're becoming a weaker species because of it.

Answer 3

All you need to do is meet a man like me. I know what you are talking about. Men CAN fit the bill in both ways.

Answer 4

You shouldn't have to pick between one or the other, find a man with both qualities. If that seems too difficult however, then think about which quality is more important to you.

Answer 5

im a virgin. but while i wouldnt mind to get wild once in a while i think i lean more towards a guy that is gentle yet passionate in bed and understanding and sensitive in life.

Answer 6

well i actually found a rarity...a man that is dominant in bed but we can also have a conversation about anything and cuddle and stuff like that. *shrug* It's been awhile in coming but I'm completely blessed.

Answer 7

I foresee something is gotta give. You are going to have to stick to one type over the other and choose according to your true personality.

A helping push: Once you find Mr. Sweet and mild let him be his self don't push him in different directions.(Men god love em but they can only be trained one way and one way only.)

Answer 8

i have both - a take charge guy during the day, and a kitten in the bedroom since I'm the one that rules that arena.

Same guy, just different personalities depending on the situation.

Answer 9

aaaaaaaaaah thats the catch.
ill prefer to hav a submissive woman both in bed and otherwise
::))

Answer 10

A combination of both would be ideal!