I have been with together with boyfriend for more than a year now. On the 1 date, we did the deed -- in a motel. I asked him what it was all about (it was my first time to do it with someone i am not together with.. 2nd person i ever slept with), he told that it is a relationship. After a week, 2nd date again ended up in a motel. (Note that he does not live alone during this time) He sent me text messages within the week before our 2nd date. He told me he loves me a month after.
At present, he has met my family (I havent met his). He has spent 2 years new years eve with my family. We have gone through a lot. He tells me he loves everyday. (sex is part of our relationship --mostly everytime we see each other)
Is he for real? Is it really possible to find love even if you had sex on the first date? I need your opinions on this.
(the guy is 10 yrs older)
2007-02-08 03:22:37 · 8 answers · asked by mikie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never sex on the first date....
2007-02-08 03:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that a lot of times when you have sex on the first date that it will not work out. But that is not always the case. It can work out. It all depends on what you both were looking for at the time it happened. Also were you friends first? If so, then it really is not a big deal. Every case is different.
If he is still with you now, and he gives you no reason to distrust him, then just let it be and stop thinking about it. You have been together a while now, why are you questioning this now?
2007-02-08 11:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never agree to sex on the first date. Have you ever been to his place? Are you sure he's not married and just cheating on his wife? Do you know any of his friends? This just sounds way too shady to be considered a relationship. I'd cut him off and move on to someone that was willing to make you a part of his life. You deserve better than what you are getting.
2007-02-08 11:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex on the first date is never good.
Why have you not met anyone in his family?
It is possible to have love yes but only if the relationship feels right. Do you not know anything about him?
IF not get to know him more meet his family - if he refuses then you know he is just using you
2007-02-08 11:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, sounds too fishy to me. He's most likely just using you. Any guy who gets it from a girl on the first date will most likely have no respect for her. I think you need to drop him and find someone more respectful and deserving of you, and don't screw it up by sleeping with him on the first date (or the second...)
2007-02-08 11:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will always b there just for the same reason u did with him on the first date
2007-02-08 11:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by simply_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would question why you have not met any of his family members
2007-02-08 11:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he loes you but if you arent ready to take it as quicky as he wants to take it slow....its your way or no way
2007-02-08 11:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Lolliepop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋