Answer this please?

Question

If there were something about your past that you could fix or change, what would it be and why?

Answer 1

You know when tests comes your way - hurdles at you unexpectantly, you just wish that you could re-write everything - have a new script - had three more wishes - ask yourself that if you were dreaming, you wished that you've to wake up now - and get on with "reality". But all you need is time - and more of it - to understand, to reflect, and accept - to humble yourself really - in a gradual process you would fit all the things in the right boxes and breathe and reflect of what had happened. If you were not a better person - or if it was a rough road - after the tempest have come your path - and with more time - gradually, you would have finally come around and have understood more of yourself and of the things of why? and why me? . All of those questions, must have fit at the right places and realized something about you that made you stronger or more of a better person than not of experiencing what you have. Hope I have made a clearer picture. Goodluck!

Answer 2

My wife was diagnosed with cancer February 05 of 2000 and went to heaven July 26 of the same year.When she was diagnosed they offered her chemo-therapy and she first refused.This upset me because I felt she should try anything to rid the cancer or reduce the size of the tumors.I expressed these feelings to her and since we had two daughters who were only 5 and 3 she decided to go ahead with the chemo.She became very sick,skinny and lost her hair.She still passed away in less than 6 months which is what they originally told her even before the therapy.So if I could go back,I wouldn't be so selfish and I'd let her make her own decision.I LOVE AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH WENDY1

Answer 3

I got pregnant by the next door neighbor when I was 17. I married him and was in an abusive relationship for 17 years. I finally divorced him but now, my 20 year old daughter keeps finding the biggest losers to date and they treat her rotten, like her dad treated me. So, if I could change something, it would have been to stay the f*ck away from my neighbor.

Answer 4

I am a recovering alcoholic (10 years sober), I was raped, got pregnant from same, and gave up the child for adoption. I was mentally and physically abused as a child. BUT I WOULD CHANGE NOTHING! As hard and heartbreaking for me as these things were, they have created the strong, intelligent, independent, and empathetic woman that I am today. I believe God gives us nothing that we cannot handle and that all can be used for good.

Answer 5

I think that we have all done things that we regret and sometimes wish we did not do, but on the other hand, I dont think that I would change anything because we live and learn from our mistakes and it helps us to make better decisions in the future. I really think it makes us stronger.

Answer 6

I would be more relaxed. I was way too jealous when I was dating. I wish that I hadn't been so possessive. I believe I could have gotten more out of life. Oh yeah, I lived so close to the US border(Canadian) that I wish I would have driven to Montana more to shop and hike. Live life and learn, baby!!

Answer 7

Not waiting long enough to heal before going into another relationship but I love the man I'm with but I think it would have been better if I had waited awhile first.

Answer 8

I would choose to not have been as shy in high school. I would have enjoyed it a lot more. It way more fun to be myself, and not be shy. I think I would have had more friends if I wouldn't have been so shy.

Answer 9

After my heart was smashed I would not have wasted 5 years hoping and praying we would get back together

Answer 10

what i would change is to enjoy my past life a little bit more what would you change email me your answer