I am quite often surprised to hear and read from girls
' I will keep my virginity until marriage" even in modern america.
reading yahoo questions, I often find that kind of statement.
I read the statistics, 90% of americans lose their virginity before marriage.
Keeping virginity before wedding is stil virtue in america?
Do guys stil prefer a virgin as a wife?
2007-02-08 03:19:00 · 11 answers · asked by earthlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't mind a girl who has a sexual history. I'm no prude.
2007-02-08 03:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know - virginity has a bad rap now. I can tell you from personal experience that I wish I had been a virgin when I met my husband. I wish I could have given myself to him and him alone - and he feels the same way. Both of us regret everyone else we've ever been with. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
So yes - if I had it to do over again I would have stayed a virgin. I didn't bloom young, I lost mine after 20, but at the time I didn't really think it was a big deal. It wasn't until my husband, and experiencing the love that we have for each other that I now feel guilt.
And there are a lot more virgins out there then most people realize. Most girls I know are still virgins, and at least remain so until their adult years. There is more and more pressure to lose virginity now - in fact I was told I was weird and not right because I was still one! I think it should still be a virture - especially since it protects you from disease, unwanted pregancies and unwanted emotional ties.
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I think it's really sad to see men claiming they want a woman with sexual experience. Virgins actually can be fun - especially if they love who they are with and are respected. Everyone had to start someone - and you get the thrill that you alone are their's.
2007-02-08 03:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by noncrazed 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I'd have to say most women do not wait until marriage these days. That is in part due to the fact that a lot of women these days wait and get married later after they have finished school and started a career.
2007-02-08 03:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, one absolute rule is that your body is your body and no man or woman else can inform you what to do with it. don't sense compelled to do belongings you do not decide on to do, extremely at the same time as it includes sex. You reported that you want your boyfriend proper? properly are you going to discover that love again with someone you're going out with in order that that you're able to have sex? likely not. I say keep on which includes your guy. You sound pleased with him, he appears like one in a million guy. And answering your 16 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous virgin question, no you ought to not sense undesirable. once you loose your virginity you may not get it again. ought to you extremely lose it which includes your boyfriend that you want and he respects you or with someone purely to lose it. do not pay interest to friends who inform you who you may and who you may not flow out with. you stay your existence the way you opt on to, not the way they anticipate you to. via how, you at the instantaneous are not the in hardship-free words 16 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous virgin available. i actually am 20 and am a virgin.
2016-12-03 21:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by matis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its 2007 and in America no one cares if you are a virgin up until marriage. And before they were all lying anyways!
2007-02-08 03:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is not important at all as long as I like the chick.
2007-02-08 03:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by MartinPalermo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as u fill ur head up with education about sex ual moves like missionry doggiestyle classic or kama suptra and read ur cosmopolitan everyday virginity shoudnt be a problem for marraige in newlywed stage
2007-02-08 03:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by web gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not prefer, actually most guys prefer a woman with some experience. Virgins are not fun.
2007-02-08 03:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Chris R 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
there are plenty of girl who still are, and simply because they want to wait. some guys do prefer virigins.... and some dont. it's all about the particular person. that is why America is great, we make those choices for ourselves instead of having our culture or govt make them for us.
2007-02-08 03:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i still want to keep my virginity cause once you've done it u can't take it back....4 me is important and i don't care about what other men's say
2007-02-08 03:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋