i live with me dad and step mom and i dont get along with either of them anymore...........when I first moved with my dad i got along with him and we were tight(didnt get a long with step mom). almost everyday him and my step mom fight are something like that....I moved here from my real moms and didnt and never did get along with her...she didnt care about me and i hated her.....I move here thinking me and my dad would be better friends than me and me mom were......well all that went down like $hit......well me and my dad now get in all this kid of fights and there were some were we hit eachother and we both had marks from it.....I dont know what to do.........I whatch about 4 to 6 kids a day but i want to leave and never came back, but where do I go...that my question.....i hated it at my moms and will never go back, and now the same thing for my dads.............what should i do........please help.........
2007-02-08 03:18:19 · 4 answers · asked by joy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How is it that you don't get along with any of them? Could it be your attitude needs to mature? Family violence does not solve problems, all of you need to go to counseling. Suggest this to your dad. Moving out will only delay solutions and not help you.
Good Luck
2007-02-08 03:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a teenager, we all went through that. But while you are living under your dad's roof you are to listen to both of them and respect both of them. If you do that, it will be easier for you. Make a deal with your dad that you need time with him alone and you will have no problem watching the kids for him occassionally. Ask him to schedule a family game night or an outing like skating or going for a walk once a week so you guys can have some fun together as a family. Sounds like you need some good ol' fashion family togetherness. Trust me. You will all be happier if you get to know one another. Also I suggest going to the school councillor. You get to miss a class and it can't hurt to talk to someone about your feelings. Hope this helps. Sending hugs!
2007-02-08 11:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should probably find tome with your dad to let him know exactly how you fel. You should try to keep good terms with at least some of your family. Maybe if you leave for a while things will cool down with dad.
2007-02-08 11:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by Perdido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your local health department and ask to speak with a social worker that specializes in abuse cases. There are also hotlines for reporting abuse, which is what you are dealing with. They can help you get out of this situation.
2007-02-08 11:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋