Can someone go from being inlove.. like really inlove..to being out of love??
Have you ever heard of some situations like that?.. but maybe in the end it worked out , and they fell back inlove and stayed in it?
2007-02-08 03:14:03 · 17 answers · asked by amor_mama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes..i changed my clothes twice yeasturday.
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NO seriously... When it comes to Love.... Yes people do fall in and out of love. But that isnt changing.. that is just they way they feal.
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2007-02-08 03:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've been with the same man for 18 years and some of those days gone by I wished I had never even met that man. But the truth of it is, that no matter what, good and bad, I chose to work through the hard times with him and be true to my commitment and to my love. We spent time talking about things that bothered us in our relationship and hurt each others feelings more than once, but found that around the corner, it will work if you try to make it work. I had to put away resentments and wishes for ill will and even eat crow, but so did he. We found the way together. Love, or even call it "perfect love" only exists in your mind, not in reality. Staying together means working together, communicating your need to each other, working out issues that create stress in your lives together. Falling out of love is, in my opinion, something that only happens if real love wasn't there to begin with. If love is true, nothing should stop the two of you from solving all your problems together. Keep working at it!
2007-02-08 11:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No people cant go from being so inlove to out of love uif they fall out of love that means they really didn't love you after all but yea i have heard about sistuations like that.
2007-02-08 11:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by somebodyssexygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that situation many times. Once I fall out of love there is no turning back for me. Ever
2007-02-08 14:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes people can indeed change from being in love to not being in love anymore. Love is like a flower, if not tended to properly it starts to wither and die. Sometimes with a lot of work and patience, people have been known to be able to rekindle the love they once felt.
2007-02-08 11:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible for this to happen. People sometimes go into those slumps where they dont want to be physically close to the other person, BUT this is a red flag.
Usually when its real love, you'll never dislike the other person. You might feel lazy to have sex or get physically close, but you would never get sick of the other person.
These slumps could turn into more, or they can help you realize how much you care for the other person when you try to distance yourself from them.
2007-02-08 11:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can fall out of love. But maybe you guys just need some 'space'. I know you mentioned that you're married. When I say 'space' I mean separate activities. Have you thought about re-kindling the fire this Valentine's? I wish you guys luck!
2007-02-08 11:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by down2earth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took space from my girlfriend 4 months ago who states it was true love, but will not want to work on getting back together with me. So, I do not believe she was in true love, True love means you can work out any problems, there was no cheating, or harm to each other. Bottom line, I used to think so, but don't anymore
2007-02-08 11:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than falling outta love I think what can happen is something triggers you to fall outta love. You can desperately be in love with someone and go from that to total disillusion because that person did something hurtful to you. It doesn't mean one day you love someone the next day you don't...that would be bipolar disorder.
2007-02-08 11:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by shygal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has never worked for me, the last situation i was in we broke up several times, and this last time i realized neither of us were gonna change to make it work, sometimes u reach a point when u know u just have to move on no matter how bad it hurts.
2007-02-08 11:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by Aly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes people do fall in and out of love ..just like me ive lost feelings for my partner
2007-02-08 11:29:05 · answer #11 · answered by vms001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋