I am asking because my best guy friend is dating a girl from work and they are living together. However, nobody at work supposedly knows about it. The kicker is that everytime his friends from work come over she has to leave. Me and my boyfriend went over his house for a super bowl party with all of his co-workers . But she was not there he told her to come back home at 5am. When she came back my friend had his co worker and his girlfriend stay over. My friend told his live in girlfriend that he either she can just stay in their bedroom til his friends leave in the morning or stay gone until he calls her to come back home. She actually stayed slept out in a grocery stores parking lot from 5am-9am and it is cooooooooold in chicago. I thought that was pathetic. What do you think?
2007-02-08 03:13:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is playing her big time. He doesn't love her, and is ashamed of being with her. it's very pathetic.
2007-02-08 03:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Atousa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd never do that for a relationship. Sorry, but I am NOT staying out all night and keeping my relationship secret - nobody is worth being treated like that.
2007-02-08 11:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if someone wants to keep you a secret you shouldn't be in a relationship with them. They should be proud of being with you or totaly without you all together. I would break it off with him if he felt that way about me. I agree that it is pathetic to let someone mistreat and disrespect you in that manner.
2007-02-08 11:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a cyber-fling with a guy that I only told a couple of VERY close friends about. My family, and most of my other friends, don't have a clue.
2007-02-08 14:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think something very strange is going on.
This is unhealthy in any relationship and should not go on. When relationships are kept private, its because they have something to hide that they arnt sure of, arent proud of, or are embarrassed of.
2007-02-08 11:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems unbelievably pathetic. What is she, a dog? This guy sounds like a mentally abusive ******.
2007-02-08 11:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using her. She is crazy to accept this. There has to be some reason why he doesn't want anyone to know about her. She should find someone that wants her around no matter who is looking.
2007-02-08 11:21:30 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a pogue. He doesn't deserve anyone that considerate, and she needs to lose him before she loses a toe to frost bite.
2007-02-08 11:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Chris R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋