this question popped in my head when this friend of mine announced in our circle that's she inlove, err, AGAIN.. i've heard it for 10 times already. nah, perhaps 20 times. it's like, she easily falls in and out of love..
is it really love btw cause if you gonna ask me it's not.
just want to hear your sides.. tnx..
2007-02-08 03:13:09 · 19 answers · asked by poochini 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have been married 60-70 years without no break ups and problems then i would say its love.
But I think there short lasting love and long lasting love,there is so many people in the world, everyone is going to be different
2007-02-08 03:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by ermidontknow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK here's the thing. love is nothing more than an overstated idea. the real definition of love is exactly true.an experience felt by a person for another person. Love often involves caring for or identifying with a person or thing, including oneself (cf. narcissism). Dictionaries tend to define love as deep affection or fondness.
so we go onto the cockroach theory. when you get down to the base of it we are no more than your basic animal. were here to do three things, eat breed and die. everything else is a bonus. anyone you meet on any given day is a possible mate. and that explains base attraction for all the pretty people you see. but being the modern man that we have evolved into we realize the benefits of monogamous relationships so we try to settle with one mate and some very honorable people can do it. but many more still fall back to the base animal instincts we have and decide the grass is greener on the other side. which usually it's not. it's just as dull and brown every where else. but it's easier to find someone else who is exciting because it's new than it is to stick it out with the same boring person.
so in the end we are not too much different than the cockroaches. only difference we have TV.
2007-02-08 11:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by raymo28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love....well, I think love and infatuation are often confused. I would guess this is what is going on with your friend.
Finding true love goes deeper than sexual infatuation. It is a deep feeling of commital between two people, wanting to care for each other, and of all things, the ability to view your partnership and relationship a living thing.
Once you find love, with time, all of this can be accomplished
2007-02-08 11:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she falls in lust.... Lust feels like love but if her and the special somone break up she can move on and fall "in love" again, which is how u know it aint real bc they're all I hate that yadayada he's such a yeah ....... If she was in love actually in love it would be different...
2007-02-08 11:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by Adrianna N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well real love is when u hv to tell smone evrything thats happened to u in a day or even the most minor details u will fell sleepless and won't feel like eating even if u r damn hungry thats what i know about love the rest is up to you!!
2007-02-08 11:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by mit _ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what your friend is describing is satisfaction for the time being... you see being in love.. if totally different... people who get easily satisfied .. think they are in love... where as a person who is truely in love considers that state to be the lowest...
if you are in love then it make ur stomach sick whne ur other half is away from you... whne you are in love u can spend a day... just gazing in her eyes... and whne you are in love you see a hottest gilr on the street and you think man those jimy chos she is wearing woudl look really good on her...
that is what TRUE LOVE IS!!
2007-02-08 11:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you can say that you want nothing but to spend time with the person of your affection. Want to do nothing but hang out for hours and hours no matter what. You have to be serious.
2007-02-08 11:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by date doctor 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since she's said it so many times, I would take her word with some doubt.
Just watch and see how she acts around her boyfriend. If she's really loving and he's really loving, then it could be love.
But if they treat eachother horribly, then it isnt.
2007-02-08 11:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is not such thing; you just settle for somebody that you can tolerate (and that tolerates you).
2007-02-08 11:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by MartinPalermo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant find LOVE but you express it..for LOVE is not a feeling but how you sacrifice for the one you LOVE or for your love ones..
2007-02-08 11:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by graze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋