How? There are guys I like but I am too shy to make a move. And while some guys really express how much they like me, I don't like them. Why is it that whoever I like doesn't like me, and whoever seems to like me, I am not ready for? And that if I like someone and he likes me, we are both too insecure to admit it?
Nice boyfriend means sweet, caring person who I strike a chord with naturally, not a fake and contrived creation for the purpose of physical satisfaction. Preferably a sweet, innocent boy with whom I can share beautiful moments. I know such people too, and they seem to like me, but I don't know what to do as I was rejected by two others... and am still bruising. I hate even to see those people. And yet I am positively sure I am an attractive and strong-willed young lady (18 year old to be precise...) The problem with me is that I am too romantic, complicated and emotional...till date I have been single. I am proud of my ethics, but within limits I want a guy now.
2007-02-08 02:41:27 · 7 answers · asked by In-Sync 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well be yourself and keep looking. there are a lot of guys out there who are nice. look harder and you'll find one. good luck
2007-02-08 02:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About Nice Guys: They tend to be the shy quiet ones who are often passed over. Because of this they will be harder to get, they think no one could possibly be interested in them. Hinting doesn't work very well on them. They're probably not going to make the first move because they don't want to offend or scare you away. I would be willing to bet if you have any guy friends who are nice, and not already taken, there is at least ONE of them who is already secretly and deeply in love with you and is too scared to tell you in fear that it would mean losing you altogether if you did not feel the same way. What's he waiting for? He's waiting for YOU to tell him it;'s O.K.! If he's so great, why hasn't anyone else snapped him up? If he has set his heart on YOU, he doesn't SEE anyone else. He will continue, suffering in silence, waiting until you let him know one way or the other by your actions. Back in high school, I was That Guy, as were most of my friends. When she finally opened her eyes, it was one of my friends she chose. But I was happy, because I knew he would treat her right and protect her. I could move on. He's out there, probably closer than you think. Start off with someone who would be "good friend" material. If he would not make a good friend, then he is almost certain to make a lousy boyfriend. Pay attention to how he treats other people. If he is a dishonest or mean guy in general, odds are he'll be that way with you. Do not make the mistake of thinking your "love can change him". Why should you settle for a "fixer-upper"? As a guy, I can tell you emphatically: WE DO NOT CHANGE, we just get better at being who we already are. Don't mistake powerful physical attraction for love. Bad boys may be "hot", but just remember they're still "bad". Not to say that nice guys have to be boring, you just have to look beyond the surface. Jerks are easy to find because they tend to be the flashy ones that stand out.
2016-05-24 06:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Place a personal ad at match.com or go out to a club
2007-02-08 02:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by Tara G 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A nice boyfriend in no myth
he exists! and is typing this message =)
2007-02-08 02:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by Music fan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ahhh boohooo! you are not alone dear. lots and lots of women are asking the same questions. That's life.
2007-02-08 02:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Atousa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a nice boyfriend is a myth.
2007-02-08 02:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Maybe you are a lesbian?
2007-02-08 02:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Betty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋