What do you think about a virgin male...?

Question

Girls Only or to boys in similar case.

I believe in love. I should be in love to allow myself sex. many girls approached me but i never had sex with anyone. b'coz i never loved any. to two of them i was forced to kiss and that too b'coz she grab and had no choice.

I just got a girlfriend 2 days ago. i love her but i dont know whether she love me. Am willing to have sex this time.

am 24 yrs and still a virgin... is it a shame? a nice, handsome and playful guy who never had sex in his life?
should i tell it to my girlfriend or hide it? what will she think of me?

Answer 1

Not a shame!!! I wish there were more guys out there who werent all about sex. Its seems like now a days if you dont sleep with someone within the first few weeks you get dumped. ( Thats y i have been single for way to long!) You should never do anything that makes you feel not good about your self! If youvemade it this far wait more then 2 days to know if your gonna sleep with someone.

Let her prove she loves you and keep you V-card. You will either be mad you didnt lose it ALONG time ago, or regret you gave it up!!

Answer 2

never be ashamed to be a virgin. its not a dirty word and the only reason you are is because of your own personal choice. yes, you should tell your girlfriend that you are a virgin. i dont think she'd mind at all, especially if you are willing to have sex with her. just dont tell her now. wait unti a little further in the relationship when your comfortable and ready to have that conversation. even if you want to give it up to her you should wait until your completely ready and to be sure that she feels the same way about you. if you treat sex as a serious thing from the beginning, you can ensure a good relationship, at least from that part.

Answer 3

It's only been two days...it's a little early to be throwing love out there. Get to know her. When sex comes up tell her that you are a virgin and you were waiting for love and for it be special. If she cares about you it shouldn't matter to her if anything she will think that it's sweet/cute/special. There's nothing to be a shamed of

Answer 4

If she is experienced she will know if you dont tell here and how do you know you can trust her by telling her this after just knowing her for only two days come on now. Just wait to see how things play out for you dont rush anything by having sex with someone you dont love then you will lose what you have been holding onto for all these years

Answer 5

Take responsibility for your actions - what a wimp to say you kissed a girl because she forced you, what rubbish. Secondly, how can you possibly be in love after two days? Weird how after holding out this long, two days and your in there. Was it previously that you just didn't have the opportunity?

Answer 6

I'm a 24 year old virgin male as well. I'd tell her when things go in that direction. When I told the last girl I dated it was a positive reaction.

Answer 7

I guess the part I don't understand is how you are in love with a girlfriend you've only had for two days. Either you've known her for longer than two days, or what you're feeling isn't love...it's either lust or a crush.

Please clarify...

Answer 8

there is nothing to be shameful, you are just saving the best for someone you feel worthy of. Give yourself some time and get to know your gf better before you do it. It takes two to tango isn't it?

Answer 9

Not a great idea to hold out. All your doing is depriving yourself. Watch some porn, get an idea of what to do and jump in with both feet. You'll be amazed at how much you like it.

Answer 10

you are going to have to tell her because she will find out due to your inexperience. You sound like a nice guy and if she cares about you it should not matter to her. She may think that this is a good thing. Good luck.