if you had a chance to go back and re do or undo something, would you?

Question

my answer is no, before I would have said yes, but now I realize everything happens for a reason

Answer 1

yes i would like to undo some mistakes i have made in my life.

Answer 2

Yes I would change a few things,Hindsight is always 20/20. I would worry about myself more and not have put everyone in front of me cause in the end my life got destroyed from trusting other people instead of listening to my own intuition.I learned the hard way.Now Im paying for all those decisions too and my nerves are completley shot.and I ended up losing alot,Take care of yourself cause when you take care of everyone and everything and you run out of money or rescourses its amazing how noone is around to help you.

Answer 3

no. like you said, everything happens for a reason. when i saw this question first i was like, "hell YEAH!" but then i was like, "what?" honestly i don't know. i regret so many things in my life it's not even funny, but as i get older i realize that all these bad things are leading me to my destiny, stronger and wiser. and whatever i change is going to have a big effect on everything else in my life. it's just like the butterfly effect, my favorite movie for exactly that reason. when you change a little tiny thing, your world gets rocked. and i would screw up whatever good thing i have left. i mean, it could end up good, but why take the chance?

i was going to give my son up for adoption. this was the plan for most of the pregnancy, my ex left me 8 months pregnant thinking i was going to give him up. i had him thinking i was going to give him up. but honestly it didn't feel right, some part of me was telling me to keep him but i didn't listen. so the adoptive family was there and he got sick. he had to get transferred to a nicu in another hospital, and by the end of the day they decided they didn't want him anymore. so i went trying to find an agency that dealt with special needs kids, and i found one, and they kept on faxing stuff to me that never showed up but on their side said the fax went through. weird huh? so i gave up and decided to keep him (alone which i DEFINITELY did not plan), and somehow i keep on making just enough money to get by, when i barely work. and the best part is that there is nothing wrong, unlike what we all thought, i took him to several doctors and they say it was just a scare. so it happened for a reason, so i could keep him.

Answer 4

wow... I have thought about this a lot... but whereas there are many things that I wish never happened or that I would have done them differently... but those are the things that have made me who I am and put me in the situations that have blessed me lately... so really I would not re-do or un-do anything if it meant missing out on what I have now...

Good question... happy Thursday

Answer 5

What's done is done. You can't go back. If we could, then of course we'd all have something that we'd undo. As long as you learned from your mistakes, that's all that matters. As far as re do something.....yeah, there are moments where I'm happy and of course I'd re do them.

Answer 6

Yeah actually there is something I did when I was younger that I wish I could go back and undo.

Answer 7

Yes definitely

Answer 8

yes, I would undo something that I am not proud of. But as you said I have learned from this and I will never do it again!

Answer 9

Yeah I would have waited to have sex till after I was married. I wouldn't have gotten in with the wrong crowd. Never would have partied, gotten drunk, smoked weed and I would have treated my parents better. I would have went to church sooner. That's where I found my happiness, with the Lord.
Be Blessed and Rejoice in the Lord!

Answer 10

No it would be a bad idea to go back and meddle with the past because you are who you are today because of decisions you made back then. Those decisions affected you to help form and shape your character and make you more of a 'you' changing those decisions would ruin you.