I fancy this lad and I dont know how to apprach it.?

Question

Ok, I am 24 years old and I feel about 5! I have seen this very very cute bloke in a shop where I live and think he is gorgeous but I don't know him and dont want to go steaming in there, so do I make eye contact and smile next time I am in there or what? Anybody had a similar experience with a complete stranger somewhere like this that wasn't a pub or club?

Answer 1

For a man, as a complete stranger, to see a sweet lady looked at me and smile, I would melt down and have wings! I will know you are interested in me.
Well, you can try it on me!

Answer 2

unless your naturally a confident person it can be hard to approach people in a club, let alone a shop. if he says no, i'll be honest, you will lose a little self-esteem for a week or so, but b*llox to it just do it anyway.

a little tip though if a girl tries asking a bloke out they can do it without actually asking them, entice them to ask you. if its a tesco for example, buy a bottle of wine and say something like, shame to drink it all on my own and flutter your eyelashes. if he doesn't pick up on this he either dont like you or is too shy, in which case you've displayed more confidence than he has anyway so asking him out shouldn't be such a task.

all the best, have a go though you only live once. i saw a stunner in the pub the other day with a bloke and i nearly had a go anyway. wish i had now! go for it!

Answer 3

Oh boy...another one...

Anyway here's my recomendation...
1) The majority of guys likes their women to have the following characteristics:
maturity
sleek and elegance
speaks slowly, calmly and confident
are confident (so stop acting like a 5 year old, it makes us feel like paedoaphilas)
smiles
have good eye contact (it's key to face him with your head in an uprght position)
funny and has a sense of humour
take some control on the odd occassion but ot all the time
proactiveness
intelligence

2)approach him and mention something about him that you have noticed or feel like commenting on in a casual conversation sort of way.

3) build on your conversation based on what you said in 2). Make sure you have a conversaion that last about 5 minutes. Make sure he has the opportunity to express himself in some way for at least 2 minutes of the conversation.

4) Say that you have to leave but you would like to talk to him more and ask him whether he would liek to exhcange numbers and email addresses

5)The leave and call him or text him about 2 days later to see if he would like to do something together unless he invites you before then. During these 2 days make sure you had around 2-3 conversations which lasts about 5 minutes each.

Good luck.

Answer 4

Yes, look him in the eyes, smile and say "Hello".