he doesnt call me for 4 days straight and when i call him he doesnt answer and when he finally call me he talks to me like nothing has happened and he will go on about how tired he is from working. he does this often, is he a cheat? all you guys out there be truthful cos i really need to know...
2007-02-08 02:14:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably hard at work cheating on you because you ask really dumb questions like "should slavery be brought back?"
2007-02-08 03:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see why you are suspicious, but you need to keep looking for evidence. There are a lot of times I have to work late several days in a row. I'd usually take a short call no matter what (but if you aren't the kind of person who can make a short phone call, I wouldn't take one from you).
It would also help me decide if I knew more about how 'together' you two are--how long have you been dating and how often do you see each other? He could be seeing someone else, but doesn't think you are a couple yet (I'd always get in touch with my girlfreind at some point twice a week--if I was truly too busy to see her more, but if I'm just dating a woman, I probably wouldn't worry about it.) He could be working hard and not cheating, but if so he ought to talk to you so you don't wonder about him.
If I were you, I'd let this go for now, but keep an eye on him.
2007-02-08 10:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be cheating...but it all depends..
did he used to call you a lot in the past? Or has he always been like this?
How does he act when he see's you?
Have you asked him why he doesnt answer ur calls or call you? What is his excuse?
All those things can determine an answer.
Cause it is possible that he is soo focused on work, and so tired from work that a relationship isnt a priority.
You should tell him how you feel and ask him for more of his time. and then go from there...
2007-02-08 10:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by amor_mama 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking he is probably cheating but as 1 person has said he might not be cheating on you! Call his place of work and ask for him and then see what his hours are and if it is possible for you to set up an appointment with him later in the evening, do it in a way that sounds legitimate like you aren't checking up on him. You might get a surprise, guys tell you what they want to tell you, what they want you to believe. How tired are you that you can't pick up the phone and make a phone call to just say hi, i miss you but I'm tired and been working alot. it's not to hard to do. If my guy can't call me because he is to tired I guess I am not that important to him!
2007-02-08 10:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it do not mean he is a cheat it doesnt mean he wants to ignore you either it just means hes fed up of talking to you every day as hes prolly run out of things to say and doesnt want to bore you with awkward silences on the fone, id call him every 3 or 4 days by then he will have something to say and will have missed the sound of your voice,
2007-02-08 10:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by 0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should ask these people a question like this. What if you believe these people that say he is cheating and it turns out he really is just working his butt off. Then you threw a relationship away for no reason.
2007-02-08 10:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by LT. DAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women always assume the worse. It's quite possible that after a long day at work he just wants to be left alone, so he doesn't call you or answer your calls. But then again it's possible. Talk to him about it.
2007-02-08 10:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by Just D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is like this at the beggining of a relationship imagine what he will be like in a few years time? Find someone who is dedicated to you, someone who will cherise talking to you and spending time with you. 4 days straight is pretty bad if you ask me.
2007-02-08 10:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your man do? You have to think about that. And if work takes up all his time than he is not cheating but if his job does not take up all his time than you need to move on and take it one day at a time.
2007-02-08 10:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by Tara G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell you the truth, he sounds like a cheat , dump his a** and find someone who will love you.
2007-02-09 18:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋