this semestre it seems like... i get poor grades.. even after studyin evry night every moment.! .. please help.. i am doing IGCSE..diploma, and i fear of failing and having nothing because i am depressed... i cant go to therapy cuz my parents dnt care if i am or not... so pleasse... give a helping hand... to concentrate and have better grades for the sake of having a new door... to a better world!! plz tips.. thnks if u would :)
2007-02-08 01:58:56 · 8 answers · asked by suMeone'SUmwhere 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You should ask God for help. He's the best one to help and he's the main physican. I will be praying for you. Don't give up on your studies though. Just try your best. That's all you can do but don't stress over it ok? Just don't give up and try your best. As long as you study and do your assignments you should be fine. Don't stress and try so hard to get an A but do your best.
2007-02-08 02:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you go through that, perhaps its your age, but if you really need to solve this issue, you must first find out what it is that makes you depressed. Not telling your parents, or not attending a therapy, is not going to solve your problems. Everyone would be able to advise you, but the only proffessional help and emotional help can come only from your parents. Why do you feel your parents dont care about you ? You havementioned that you are studying, which obviously means that your parents do provide for you and your education, probably the communication is not there between you and your parents.
Alternatively, you could also seek advise someone older, or a best freind / sibling, tell them what really runs in your mind, and probably they will help you to make your parents understand too. Meanwhile you have to build the courage, faith and trust on your paretns, and see what happens, whether what you said, that is they dont care for you, is true or not. And this you can find out only by telling them and seeing their reaction.
While you build your courage to do all that, I suggest you make a note of things that depress you, something in the routine, anything that happens during the day.....find out what is so bad about it that it has to affect your studies. For you to have new doors open out to you, you have to first allow yourself to go through certain changes, acceptance, and be completely honest with yourself and your parents. You should keep an open mind, concentrate by keeping an aim in life, and using all this opportunity that you have now to really get you a new life, a new career....and everything that comes along with it for your future. If you sit and ponder over today, you may lose out on tomorrow. So the first step is to eliminate whatever that comes between you and your studies, and that is this depression. Get it out of you, talk to someone, get your parents around, and here only you can take the first step, no one else would. So its your choice. Do you want ot be depressed and live with it without taking any first steps or do you wish to get it out of your life, and look forward to all those great things waiting for you ?
good luck
2007-02-08 02:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a to a specialist in depression and see if they can get you on some med's to balance you out. Depression is serious and it shouldn't matter to you what your parent's think in this case. If you have to go to a counsolor or something do it. Don't be ashamed and don't be affraid it is a very treatable problem and you know what? Some of the most brilliant minds and famous people in the world suffered from depression like Hemmingway, Anne Hathaway, and Mandy Moore. Maybe you will be one of them :)
2007-02-08 02:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by aboveparrequestrian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depression is treatable and it does not have to involve therapy. Ask to see your doctor and report your symptoms to see if the doc thinks you truely have depression and he will take things from there. If you need to make up some excuse to your mom to have her make a doc appointment but go see your doc. Also remember not all of us can get top grades but you can still go on to school if you want and make something of your life.
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2016-12-03 21:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents that if they don't allow you to seek therapy, you'll fail all your exams, become nothing and end up spending their money for the rest of your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-08 02:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by Vette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yoga, multivitamin and ginkobilboa (memory herb). yoga will remove stress and allow your body to receive and utilize information more readily. multivitamins will replace vitamins that were lost and not replaced for various reasons and keep sickness at bay. ginko will enhance your memory and help with test.
2007-02-08 02:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you think you assumes that you are loosing you grade and this things disturbers you in many matters .and also your parents ignorance so plz be brave and make your self able to be proud
2007-02-08 02:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by silky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋