Ok, even when I'm all wet and ready to go...it still hurts to get it to go in every time we have intercourse...everytime! I don't understand... I know thats good for him.. but man, I don't like it! I'll be all ready to go, then bam! I have to take this pain for a minute while we work it in...what should i do? any suggestions?
2007-02-08 01:51:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is an easy fix! Have him get you off first. Viola! Trust me. If he meses with you first, and does it right (like... it works for you) then it feels way better! I mean WAY! Just tell him it will make it easier for him too... trust me it doesn't feel so hot to him either when it's hard to get it in. If he successfully gets you off first, problem solved... (try a buzzer, works the fastest, with little effort)- Lube seems gross to me, this is all natural and WILL work!
2007-02-08 01:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly_lilly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every woman i've ever been with has this problem with me, it can be frustrating at times. However, the best thing i've found that works pretty good is K-Y Jelly. You might want to try this and see if it will work for you.
Doing it more often like 4 or 5 times a week might also help but only do this with the KY jelly. If you try this stuff you shouldn't have any further problems.
2007-02-08 01:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you are all wet before getting him in.If you are properly aroused internal secretions are enough to facilitate entry. Try any of the following:
1. Ask him to move very slowly at first.
2. Use fingers slowly before inserting the real thing.This will increase secretion and relax your vaginal muscles before entry.
3. Use any safe gel, oil if secretions are not adequate.
4. If nothing still works ,contact your gyno.She is your best bait in all matters.
5.If no medical intervention is possible as per doctor , go for legal intervention if married.If not just move on and try something your size.
2007-02-08 04:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being wet and ready to go doesn't mean you are ready.....if you have tried extra lubes then you really need to see a doctor.
2007-02-08 01:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kickin' Back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is extra lubrication. Try KY jelly or something similar. It will make the biggest difference for you and will help him out also =) You can never have too much, but yes, that's why it's uncomfortable for you.
2007-02-08 01:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your gynecologist. It should not hurt every time, either you need more lubrication, have something amiss in your plumbin, or your man is just not doing it right. Try more foreplay. It's worked wonders
2007-02-08 01:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lube, my friend. Lots of lube. Maybe consider different condoms without ridges or anything. Good luck
2007-02-08 01:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by gheefreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are new to the sex things, it's going to take a while for your body to get used to it enough so that it doesn't hurt initially every time. just tell him to be gentle for the first few strokes, and then you should be ready to go. if it contiunes to hurt, then you might want to go to your ob/gyn.
2007-02-08 01:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by Coolltw2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use alot of lube and tell him to take it easy for a while to make you more comfortable and to get you ready for sex cause even when your in the mood you vagina is not always
2007-02-08 01:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by jacquelinemeddows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could have an infection you should see a doctor .and pain is NOT normal . talking to a doctor is the best thing
2007-02-08 01:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Scarlet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋