I am very worried. Really, I heard many things like how he still talks to his ex. I really do not like her. Anywho, and I also heard that he met another girl's parents. But, he denies it. So...what should I do. I already told him if he wanted to have anything to do with them then we can end it but he says he wants to be with me...!?!?!
2007-02-08 01:50:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He said -- she said, reminds me of the good ol' high school days! No, seriously.. A BIG part of being with someone is having trust for them! You cannot always rely on what you hear...alot of people may just try to break you guys up for whatever reason. But, on the other hand, they may just be lookin out for yah! Its your call..do you trust and believe in what he says?? If not, the relationship is no good..sorry! Although, trust does take alot of work and building up to do.... so it may take a while to build that. If you think it is worth it to give him a chance then go for it...make him earn your trust!! If you have to be with him and go eveywhere he does, then do it! You're his girl so he shouldn't mind, right? If he does mind then I would start worrying and questioning everything. If he has a hard time answering and gets all mad that you are questioning, just say.. I am just curious as to what you are doing, you are my man and all...yah know, somethin like that. If he's still mad, there might be that chance he's cheating! :( There are also ways to tell if someone is lying, such as facial expressions, alot of movement and twitching, lookin garound the room, etc. I'm sure you can look it up online somewhere. Like how cops tel when someone is lying... Anyway.. I just know because I've been through it and was totally naive about it! He cheated on me for like 2 months without me even knowing! Then he broke up with me for her and lived with her and ended up wantin me back after I was over his sorry, cheatin ***! lol...But I wish you luck...and remember, make him earn your trust! If you have to ask a million questions, then so be it! Question away...hopefully everything makes sense! Dont be naive like I was! Just look for signs.. Like: going out more/longer, any changes, stuff like that! Sorry I'm writing a novel, I just despise cheaters!!! Good Luck to you hun!
2007-02-08 02:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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There's an issue of trust and respect.
See, if he sees other people and meets their parents, etc.. that is setting the stage for another relationship - one that he's probably been with when he's not with you.
If he is not answering you truthfully, then he doesn't respect you or the relationship.
Dangerous waters here.
When that point is reached, you'll never get a truthful answer and you'll always feel cheated on. It's time to move on.
The grass is greener on the other side, but so are the weeds!
Good luck!
2007-02-08 10:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, technically that isnt real proof that he is cheating on you. I would focus on the way he acts, see if things are different, for instance if he used to let you go through his phone, now he says dont touch my phone, something fishy might be going on.
also, why does this hear say make u trust it over ur man?
2007-02-09 22:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by darlinhun05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey...He is not the man for you.Trust is everything in a relationship/marriage if you do not have Trust then you don't have anything.If you do not trust him then save yourself a lot of herat ache and end the relationship now.Good luck to you.
2007-02-08 09:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him....
well there's this thing called girl instinct...
actually even this instinct exists on boys... kinda...
if ever you feel that way... try to see if it's true... i mean try to see it with your own eyes... there's nothing wrong when checking out your bf... it's just that you want to know the truth...
after you have proven it... that's the time to take the action... and that's the time to make your decision about it...
try to have an open mind... and hear his side of the story of course... but when making your decision clear your mind... meditate to make sure you won't regret the decision you made...
2007-02-08 10:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by JC18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are going to last then you either need to trust him when he answers your questions or get hard facts.
2007-02-08 09:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, ask him even though he may say no. Then when you catch him it will be easier to leave him cause he lied to you.
2007-02-08 09:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Camille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your cheatin on him and see what he says and if he let you go he was cheatin but if he say how could you and walk away he was cheatin but if he says he loved you and why him he's cheatin!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-08 10:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by Breezy Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go on hearsay wait until you catch him
2007-02-08 09:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋